How to get over a girl I love/loved?

[bluegirl74]

Have a gallon of ale to pluck up courage then ring her up at midnight explaining how much you love her. A few tears wouldn't go amiss, just to show your sensitive side.


On the other hand you could man the fuck up, delete her number and if you get the chance shag her sister.

Balanced advice there stony ;-)

 

[jimharri]

Not enough details to give sound advice. What happened? Is she a Rag or Dipper? Did she fuck you off or what? Is it recent? Was it Willy's saves that pissed her off?

Also, there's a distinct lack of photographic input. We need a piccy, to give some perspective to the thread. And also, to help us to come to a sensible answer to the OP's problem.

 

[Thenumber1blue]

Don't do what I did and hit the piss and/or drugs. That shit will bring a brother down.

No,do this.Get on the piss and spread the love,it's fuckin great.

 

[stony]

Balanced advice there stony ;-)

You have to cater for all sorts on here bg.

 

[Malty]

I rang her a few hours a go we talked got on and said we missed each other and talked about me going around to see her (but she said she might be going out with her mates) and that she's 'kinda single' whatever that means then she said she'll ring me back.. She hasn't rang so far


That's why I'm hurting so badly now as I feel like I've basically lost my dignity and got duped by this girl.. Why doesn't she just tell me it's over and then I can move on?

Of course she could just be busy she has a kid but maybe she doesn't want to say it's over!? She's trying to be nice??

This isn't the first time I get the impression I'm doing all the chasing..

I feel like shit.. What should I do now? Delete her number and if she rings she rings if she doesn't I won't be able to contact her anymore!? Or do I keep calling her?

Help... Don't want to come across as too desperate and ruin our good memories together.,

 

[Phil1]

Don't give her your username on here or you'll never get her back...

 

[johnny on the spot]

She ain't suicide pretty and she ain't worth ruining your life for. Give another girl a chance to star.

 

[johnny on the spot]

Also, get the fuck off the internet. Women hate that shit.

 

[andyhinch]

I rang her a few hours a go we talked got on and said we missed each other and talked about me going around to see her (but she said she might be going out with her mates) and that she's 'kinda single' whatever that means then she said she'll ring me back.. She hasn't rang so far


That's why I'm hurting so badly now as I feel like I've basically lost my dignity and got duped by this girl.. Why doesn't she just tell me it's over and then I can move on?

Of course she could just be busy she has a kid but maybe she doesn't want to say it's over!? She's trying to be nice??

This isn't the first time I get the impression I'm doing all the chasing..

I feel like shit.. What should I do now? Delete her number and if she rings she rings if she doesn't I won't be able to contact her anymore!? Or do I keep calling her?

Help... Don't want to come across as too desperate and ruin our good memories together.,

After some consideration I'm thinking follow stony's advice

 

[Malty]

Thing is I'm a really great caring guy she said before she has never met anyone like me and that I treat her amazing yet she messes with my heart like this? Why doesn't she just block my number? It's teasing like a carrot dangling !

She isn't the brightest tool in the box so maybe she's just very forgetful or just wants the single party life too much?