Is it right to go out with mates without my girlfriend?....

[Esteban de la Sexface]

Ric, Mods anyone. Can we have an agony Aunt topic.

I can't get my head around why anyone would ask a bunch of borderline mentalists on a football forum for advice on running their life.

Want some soup, Esteban?

I can't see your image because I'm at work and it blocks photobucket

 

[Biggsy1]

Grow some balls!!!

 

[Esteban de la Sexface]

Grow some balls!!!

extra ones or cultivate the ones he already has?

 

[Randomer]

 

[Biggsy1]

I remember a good few years back one of my ex's used to get right stressed when I used to go out with the lads, its an age thing with the girls. The younger the more insecure they are.

Anyhow, The following conversation occured.

Hi babe I'm off out for a lads night on Friday you cool with that?
Can I come?
No?
Why?
Well the answers in the question, its a lads night out, i.e. no birds!!
What what you gonna be doing with the lads?
Probably slagging you off!!

She wasn't happy but got the point in the end.

 

[goose72]

Ric, Mods anyone. Can we have an agony Aunt topic.

I can't get my head around why anyone would ask a bunch of borderline mentalists on a football forum for advice on running their life.

+1

 

[talkativesprout]

Get the lads round your place get her pissed and up for a spitroast,threesome, foursome then dump the woman the day after for being unfaithful

 

[foxy]

sounds like a stalker mate

 

[Why Always Ste]

long story short,i have lads and girls as friends. I go out drinking with them without her and she thinks im cheating whenever i do. she's pissing me off to the point of actually thinking i might aswell do if i'm going to be accused of doing it. i said i will go out with her on our own and she's still not having it. I'm afraid if we go out and some girl i know even says hello, she'll start an argument. she rings girls who i am mates with asking if they are sleeping with me, to which some of their boyfriends have asked what the fuck is going on...and she says i should delete ALL girls off my facebpook. friends i have known since school and after. Am i wrong for going out with my mates without her or should she come out with us all the time aswell?

p.s, i'm 23, she's 27. i think the age gap is showing to be a problem but im not sure.

Well I think its easier to just say: fod her off. or shes weird for not wanting you to go out...

But looking at what you say, you are saying your going out with Male & Female friends, so whats the problem with taking her with you?
She can get to know your friends.

if you were going out on a "lads night" then i'd understand you going without her, but you aren't so....

If you wanna go without her because you want time away from her then why do you want time away?
that should be the question, maybe you aren't right for each other?

My fiance is quite posessive as in she'll question female friends on facebook like: who are they?
but thats about it... if i go out on a night out i'd rather take her if im honest as we have a better night.

 

[Blumers Bloomers]

get rid, sharpish.

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