will do mate, cheersaphex said:i was ill about 18 months ago and i got prescribed anti-depressants. it was a last ditch thing for me and they worked.
go to your doctor.
will do mate, cheersaphex said:i was ill about 18 months ago and i got prescribed anti-depressants. it was a last ditch thing for me and they worked.
go to your doctor.
ussy said:well when i try and talk to one of my mates about it, this is what i get "oh really? Well im just busy atm ill ring you back" the call never comes. I guess i get more replies from bluemoon than i do from my so called mates.bluemoon32 said:Life is never pointless, you need to talk to someone , first point of call should be your GP, they can help with these things and could then also put you onto other people who help people in your position.
Never ever give up mate.
If it's all a pisstake then i've just made myself look fucking stupid but if it isn't then i sincerely hope you get help from someone asap
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ussy said:well when i try and talk to one of my mates about it, this is what i get "oh really? Well im just busy atm ill ring you back" the call never comes. I guess i get more replies from bluemoon than i do from my so called mates.bluemoon32 said:Life is never pointless, you need to talk to someone , first point of call should be your GP, they can help with these things and could then also put you onto other people who help people in your position.
Never ever give up mate.
If it's all a pisstake then i've just made myself look fucking stupid but if it isn't then i sincerely hope you get help from someone asap
ussy said:Wife leaves me, her reason was "look at the things you've done" and then she pleasantly brings up stuff that happened 2 years ago. I feel soooo upset, dont really care about the derby any more. Any encouraging fellas out there? What should i do? And for those that say i make up my posts, all i will say is that i dont, my life is plain shit, and just gets shitter by the day...... soooo that sums it up, im committing suicide, any last words????
Thanks, a very nice post from a very decent guy it seems. I just hope i get over this quick because its starting to get in the way of everything i do, im just feeling sorry for myself.....EastStandLower said:ussy said:Wife leaves me, her reason was "look at the things you've done" and then she pleasantly brings up stuff that happened 2 years ago. I feel soooo upset, dont really care about the derby any more. Any encouraging fellas out there? What should i do? And for those that say i make up my posts, all i will say is that i dont, my life is plain shit, and just gets shitter by the day...... soooo that sums it up, im committing suicide, any last words????
Ussy mate. Sometimes things can seem pretty bad, I had a real bad do with my wife after being together for 12 years she had a midlife crisis and pissed off leaving me with 2 kids and all the bills. Its hard to describe how hard things got and I thought I could rely on my so called friends to help me through. I could not believe the reaction I got from them, they started to avoid my calls and never came to see me, I was on my own and felt useless and unwanted by the whole world.
I managed to find the strength from somewhere to pull myself together and although things were bad at the time I pulled through it. My best decision was to find someone to talk to and that happened to be the Samaritans, and no matter what your opinion of any kind of therapy is I would implore you to take that step. It certainly helped me in a very positive way.
No matter how awful you feel somewhere deep inside you will find something positive, focus on that for now and try to dismiss any reasoning of whats happened.
Please talk to someone mate, believe me when I say things are never as bad as they seem.
My bets wishes are with you Blue!
have done :)bluemoonchick said:ussy said:well when i try and talk to one of my mates about it, this is what i get "oh really? Well im just busy atm ill ring you back" the call never comes. I guess i get more replies from bluemoon than i do from my so called mates.
Male mates wont be able to help you, blokes cant talk about their emotions. You need to speak to female friends/family or someone really objective like a doctor.
If you wanna just off load all your thoughts/feelings/issues and get it off your chest, you can can PM me. I'm a good listener xx