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If it's any help, if you're not actively looking the chance of you finding someone you actually like is better IMHO.
Indeed, thought the same thing!
If it's any help, if you're not actively looking the chance of you finding someone you actually like is better IMHO.
That sounds ace!Been single, married, single and now in a long term relationship where we have our own homes.
Watch the 40 year old virgin. Relationships fuck us up.
I was always on the fence about kids - I like them but could never shake the feeling my best role is as their auntie or their parents' friend. Losing the option has still been difficult though. Life comes at you hard and fast and the things you take for granted can be lost in an instant.Just like me but rather than can’t have kids, I just don’t want kids.
Life can surprise you though, you can randomly walk around a corner you didn’t initially intend to walk round and bump into someone worthwhile.
I always find that not actively looking for meeting someone, is when it tends to happen. Girls must smell the desperation on me when I’m out looking for it and give me the swerve haha
I dread to think how many PM’s she’s had alreadyPics please
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That sounds ace!
I always like the bit best at the beginning when you live separately to each other. It loses it’s magicwhen she starts leaving the bathroom door open to talk to you while she’s having a shitwhen you live together. So keeping the best bit going, I bet is a good idea for many couples. Would suit me.
That sounds ace!
I always like the bit best at the beginning when you live separately to each other. It loses it’s magicwhen she starts leaving the bathroom door open to talk to you while she’s having a shitwhen you live together. So keeping the best bit going, I bet is a good idea for many couples. Would suit me.
Nice post.Bit hesitant to join in here as a woman but oh well...
I'm 36, single and pretty much resigned to that life now.
As of this year, I can't have kids. That both narrows down the potential pool of partners and removes any sense of urgency to find someone.
I don't want a relationship unless it's with someone whose company I enjoy more than my own. Being something of a loner and a weirdo, that's quite a high standard, and when combined with the requirement that he'd have to like me too it seems pretty much impossible.
I'm not ruling anything out - you never know what twists and turns your life will take - but I'm not actively looking for someone.
I honestly think it’s way better to be single than stuck in an unhappy marriage. At least when you’re single, you have the freedom to be yourself and live on your own terms. Plus, who knows? You might meet someone amazing tomorrow or the day after.