MCFC BOB said:You really, really, really need to tell her this.mcfcliam said:This is awful, really, really awful,
You know that butterfly feeling you get when you think of someone? Well I get it everytime I think of her.
Knowing she doesn't feel the same anymore is killing me and I'm hurting so bad...the feeling won't go away and I'm a complete mess. No matter what I do, I can't stop thinking about it and its making my life a misery.
Sorry, I'm being a soft twat but its just how I feel...no matter who I speak to or what I do, I can't take my mind of it.
But what happened before those two months has surely given Liam some subconscious hope that maybe she likes him. I speak to Liam personally through MSN and he's told me things that, if a girl did them with me, I'd think she liked me more than she said she did. And from what he's told me away from the forum, it sounds like she hasn't given him a definitive answer. Nobody ever stays 'just friends'; it normally ends up with the two people getting back together, or it ends up with them both stopping contact with each other.Bigga said:MCFC BOB said:You really, really, really need to tell her this.
No, you don't.
There is nothing worse than being rejected AGAIN when desperation is clearly the driving factor.
There is also nothing worse than brow beating your ex back to you from the weight of sheer guilt. She'd end up detesting you even more!
Move the hell on, Liam, it's been a couple of months only!
MCFC BOB said:But what happened before those two months has surely given Liam some subconscious hope that maybe she likes him. I speak to Liam personally through MSN and he's told me things that, if a girl did them with me, I'd think she liked me more than she said she did. And from what he's told me away from the forum, it sounds like she hasn't given him a definitive answer. Nobody ever stays 'just friends'; it normally ends up with the two people getting back together, or it ends up with them both stopping contact with each other.Bigga said:No, you don't.
There is nothing worse than being rejected AGAIN when desperation is clearly the driving factor.
There is also nothing worse than brow beating your ex back to you from the weight of sheer guilt. She'd end up detesting you even more!
Move the hell on, Liam, it's been a couple of months only!
And - as Liam as said - he and [girl's name] have been texting etc. for months now, and they've been a huge part of each other's lives for quite some time. So if I was Liam, I'd still feel like I had the right to wonder whether that 'being just friends' is what she really wants.
MCFC BOB said:But what happened before those two months has surely given Liam some subconscious hope that maybe she likes him. I speak to Liam personally through MSN and he's told me things that, if a girl did them with me, I'd think she liked me more than she said she did. And from what he's told me away from the forum, it sounds like she hasn't given him a definitive answer. Nobody ever stays 'just friends'; it normally ends up with the two people getting back together, or it ends up with them both stopping contact with each other.Bigga said:No, you don't.
There is nothing worse than being rejected AGAIN when desperation is clearly the driving factor.
There is also nothing worse than brow beating your ex back to you from the weight of sheer guilt. She'd end up detesting you even more!
Move the hell on, Liam, it's been a couple of months only!
And - as Liam as said - he and [girl's name] have been texting etc. for months now, and they've been a huge part of each other's lives for quite some time. So if I was Liam, I'd still feel like I had the right to wonder whether that 'being just friends' is what she really wants.