We're currently looking at venues etc for having our wedding breakfast at and when you see the prices you realise why weddings are so much, we wanted a low key wedding for around 40 day guests and about another 40 at night and thought we would piss the whole day for 5k but no, most places want anywhere between 40-80 quid per head for a meal and a few drinks, plus maybe 1-2k for venue, 500 for church, 1k for dress, another 700 for bridesmaids dresses and suit hire etc, thats without a cake, car, dj for night, flowers, rings etc etc
I'm starting to wish I hadn't asked now!