Possible Work Place flirting

[Tuearts right boot]

Ask Thorin, he's got all the answers somewhere. Whatever happens, keep us posted, this ones got legs.

 

[sir baconface]

Your clues lie in the body language, OP.

Did she fondle you intimately on any of these rendezvous? If so, and such encounter occurred before the prawn cocktails arrived, she might unwittingly be signalling dishonourable intentions.

 

[Gabriel]

Don’t get chocolate mousse on the valance.

 

[urban genie]

Hang on, weren't you the one with the "friend" being stalked by an indian girl who was then turning up at your house or something?
How did that work out btw cannot remember

You seem to get yourself in some unique situations when it comes to women.

Anyway to answer your question, just mention jokingly next time you are out about it being a date, if she intimates that it is then you never know she may let you finger her between courses

 

[wolviedinho]

Hi all.

Didn’t want to start a new thread. My female colleague is opening her legs and showing me her hairy minge whilst licking her lips and beckoning me over seductively. Is she interested or does she just want to be pals?

Defo ‘friend zone’ behaviour:)

 

[Tuearts right boot]

Hang on, weren't you the one with the "friend" being stalked by an indian girl who was then turning up at your house or something?
How did that work out btw cannot remember

You seem to get yourself in some unique situations when it comes to women.

Anyway to answer your question, just mention jokingly next time you are out about it being a date, if she intimates that it is then you never know she may let you finger her between courses

You'll get away with that in a Seafood restaurant.

 

[HolisticJim]

Id steer as far as possible from her if I were you. In fact, id prob invent a girlfriend just to make my point.

 

[hammocity]

Okay so I am in a weird situation right now. I joined a company 2 years back and things have been going good except for one thing. There is a lady who is around 54 years of age in our office. She has been single her whole life. Few months back she asked me to go to dinner with her. I went without thinking of anything since I often go out with my colleagues. She planned on going to a lake where there were park tables and during dinner, she asked me to sit by her side when in fact I was going to sit opposite to her. I didn't think of anything that time.

However, recently she has been asking me to go to dinner with her every other month. I went out again a few weeks back and last week she has asked me to join her for dinner the 3rd time.

So what to make of this? Is she actually hitting on me or is she just lonely and wants to hang out? I am 31 and I am in no mood to go out with her as anything other than just colleagues.

Should I ask her what's going on in a polite way?

Get a grip fella, grasp the nettle and ask her if she's after a shag. If so, it's friends with benefits. One of my golf pals befriended an older person (both male, just friends) in the last few years and helped him over a messy divorce. The older guy unfortunately died in November and left my mate £250k, not the best way to receive money but just think about maybe giving this lady a good seeing to after she's made her will :-)

 

[Mr Kobayashi]

Id steer as far as possible from her if I were you. In fact, id prob invent a boyfriend just to make my point.

Might be more more effective.

 

[PannickAtTheDisco]

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get it right FFS.