As I've got older, and looking in from the outside, at my mates who have become rich as lawyers, accountants, Insolvency Practitioners, those who made the real money did it by identifying opportunities to take over struggling but viable businesses, recognise undervalued assets and invest their own time and money, or use contacts to broker deals. In short, entrepreneurs and risk takers. I never appreciated that when I was younger.
Without exactly going into all the details, I've recently been cleaned out financially and everything I've ever worked for has gone. This made me realise two things
1. I care much more about money than I previously thought I did. Previously I've always done pretty high value work but always been a slacker with it. Work the 20 hours and be comfortable rather than the 60 hours and be rich. What I enjoyed was not having to think about it and knowing that it would work out. It was comfortable and easy and lazy. When you are forced to start over like some fresh faced 16 year old, you forget how much of that comfort you took for granted. How do I scrape a deposit to buy a house, where's the next rent payment coming from, how much electric is the right amount to put on in a month now, etc? Doing this at 16 is exciting and fun, doing it again in your adult life is not so much.
2. You have to choose money to be rich. As in, I genuinely believe that it's a conscious choice. You have to guard your career and life seriously, target the opportunities you can and sacrifice other things you want. I wonder where I'd be now if at 20 I chose the highest value decisions rather than the personally fulfilling ones.
One of the reasons I'm considering law is to be honest, I enjoy advocacy. Fighting for the underdog or representing people who are underrepresented or just trying to maintain some sort of common sense in justice or thought that often is lacking. This will never make me rich, unfortunately. There's no money in advocacy but you've got to life a live that's true to yourself.
To those lads who are earning a ton, I say well done. They had the sense and the balls to take the risks that I and others didn't and they should be congratulated for it. Look at SWP he packed up and fucked off to Qatar. I wouldn't have done that, no way. I would have found a safer middle ground.
Our culture has become risk adverse as have many of us. We should definitely celebrate those who go for it, and just as importantly we should not embarrass them for their failures. Yeah they might have tried and failed, but what the fuck has anyone else ever done?