OK, this is not directly contributing to the music side of this thread — sorry — but now I'll spill the beans on 1981, because it won't come again.
1981 is marked out in my life by two things, one of which I'm very proud of, and one of which I'm incredibly ashamed of.
In 1981 my son was born. I'm very proud of him. No further words necessary, I trust.
I'm not ashamed of many things in life, very, very few. It's not my style to do things I'm going to be ashamed of. But in 1981, I also had a fretless bass hand-made for me by a lute maker in Lyon. The neck — maple, with an ebony fingerboard — goes right through the body. He told me it would be stronger that way. The body is I think walnut. He let the wood sit and dry properly for months before he even touched it. It has two pick-ups: DiMarzio and Bartolini. Again, his suggestion. They make very different sounds, with completely different tones. The DiMarzio is fizzier, funkier. The Bartolini is rich and round, almost plummy. Why did I have it made? I think of myself as a bassist. All my life, I've been singing bass lines, both in my head, and out loud. I can pick out the bass — in fact, I have no choice — on any piece of music you play me. Something I noticed quite late on in life — Bach's bass lines are very, very strong. They are inventive, but they ground his pieces admirably. And what Chopin writes for the left hand is always worth paying very close attention to. In jazz, my admiration goes to Ray Brown, Scott LaFaro, Ron Carter, Stanley Clarke, obviously Mingus, then later people like Alphonso Johnson, and, does it need saying? Jaco, and Marcus Miller. (Although for sheer, pure groove Johnson shades it from Jaco — I know that's heresy in many quarters). In rock I grew up with Entwhistle, and am in awe of the artistry of John Paul Jones. A true rock bassist. There are many others.
I am left-handed, and I wanted a fretless. No such thing available to buy ready-made then (I asked around in music shops). Still probably not now. Here's the terrible admission: I have almost never played that instrument. It sits looking at me reproachfully. As a matter of fact, I dusted off its case just the other day. Sometimes I take it out and cradle it. Tune it up, maybe pick out a few notes. Then I put it back.
The sound it makes when you plug it in to an even half-way decent amp is nectar. (I originally had an HH — you can imagine). Even just acoustically, without amplification, you can hear that it's special. If you hold the note, the natural sustain on it is ridiculous. That thing just wants to sing, but needs a little help from me.
Don't ask me to explain my block on this. I can't.
Even writing this, now, I feel truly lousy about it. In fact, I've got tears in the corners of my eyes. Pathetic, really. It is the one great thing that I should have done, and that I have left undone in life. My son recently suggested that I should let it go. But I can't do that, either. Unthinkable.
This is, incidentally, the first time I've committed this to “paper”. I spent several days thinking about whether to post this.
So… there's my 1981.