school dinner = fuming

[york away to this!]

...perhaps you could exact your revenge by stuffing something in her mouth that she doesn't fancy?...

 

[bernabias home shirt]

Sounds like she was out of order & needs to be disciplined
Do you really want her to lose her job though?

 

[tidyman]

When I was at junior school, anyone who fucked around was made to sit on "the paki table" as a punishment and eat a cheese salad every day for a week.

I imagine that has stopped now?

PC gone mad.

I hasten to add, that was the term everybody, including the dinner ladies and staff used at the time and is not the phraseology I would ever advocate.

 

[nobody can eat fifty eggs]

That letter of apology sounds like a bit of an in-house cover up.
You need to report it to Ofsted or the school governors/local authority if your going to get serious about it.....I would.

Nail the woman, your child could have contracted anything out of that bin and I hate to say it, might be affected mentally over it.

 

[mscenterh750]

`dinner woman`!! I think you resign as a school governor If the school have apologised then that should be enough. Did the dinner lady do wrong yes. The school are under no obligation to tell you what punishment they give to staff, frustrating yes, will it happen again, no.

Sorry wired I've edited it for you. Frustration no anger yes. The dinner lady is the head dinner lady, so should've known better. No the school aren't but her employers are.

 

[BlueBearBoots]

...perhaps you could exact your revenge by stuffing something in her mouth that she doesn't fancy?...

haha :O

 

[wayne71]

I'd be livid. Imagine if someone had chucked a used syringe in the bin or one of the new pupils from africa had chucked an ebola infested snot rag in the bin?

I'd be demanding the dinner lady be sacked and also the school paid for counselling for your daughter.

 

[metalblue]

Don't make a meal of it

 

[mscenterh750]

Serious question and not trying to be a c**t, but how old is your daughter? If she is year 2,3,4 or 5 I can understand her being upset, but any older (the "dinner woman" was certainly out of order) and she should have just said "no".

She's 9 and I know what you're saying, but she thought she would get into trouble by saying no.

 

[york away to this!]

Don't make a meal of it

that opportunity has bin and gone...