Are you on a wimd up. Fair do's mancunials reasoning of why it shouldn't have been a red is silly but he is right, it shouldn't have been a red and if it is then you will see teams down to 8 a peice by full time.
Adebayor received the ball to his feet with his back to goal, shawcross challenged once (from behind, I'll let you tell me what the rule regarding that is). Ade had his arm back and held/shoved Shawcross off in the chest. He bought himself another touch and the same challenge occured. This time Ade hold off/shove was on Shawcross collar bone area, resulting in Shawcross going down like a sack of faecal matter. Now explain to me where the Violent conduct occured. It didn't, simple as. In fact if the laws of the game were to be applied Shawcross could easily have found himself penalised for either the tackle from behind (again though if this was given the ref would never have his whistle out of his mouth) or for simulation.
To add insult to injury Bellers runs a line in between the two Stoke CBs who (as is there right) close the gap. What isn't their right is for one of em (huth) to swing his elbow in the direction of Bellamy's neck. Not saying this was a red either, but it was certainly a stronger case.