Should I confess

[Gaz76]

So basically an old mate who introduced me to ex got in touch over the weekend,not spoken to him for probably 10 years.
I knew straight away he's been asked to find out if it's me who moved next door.
So after chit chat about life and stuff he hit me with it.
"Where you living now"
At this point I straight up told him I knew what he's up to and to stop being a busy ****.
Reminding him I will hold him responsible if ex starts blabbing to wife,( I don't think she will anyway, she's a quiet girl)
He tried to deny it saying he met up with neutral mates and they was asking about me,
To much of a coincidence for me.

Yep you need to tell yer Mrs pronto mate,
That "quiet girl" ex of yours can't be that quiet if she's already been onto your old mate asking about you, get the Mrs told pronto as if you don't and the mad ex next door tells her, you will have all sorts of shite thrown at you, and the Mrs will never believe that your not hanging out of the back of the mad ex.
Only other possible option if you really don't want to tell the Mrs is to get back on the horse with the ex, at least then you can tell her to keep schtum

 

[city5189]

Nar mate the ex is small Petit and quiet.
The wife's battle hardened.
She will be crazy to start chatting rubbish.
I might offer to trim her bush as a peace offering.( We share the same hedge)

 

[Gaz76]

Nar mate the ex is small Petit and quiet.
The wife's battle hardened.
She will be crazy to start chatting rubbish.
I might offer to trim her bush as a peace offering.( We share the same hedge)

She can't be that quiet if you have old mates turning up out of the woodwork asking questions, and as for trimming her bush, the Mrs will kill you when she finds out you've been using her leccy razor to trim another woman's bush

 

[DiscoSteve]

clearly you're f**ked - the fact that you've even gone on here to ask 'what should I do?' says that - best of luck, you're gonna need it! ;-)

 

[city5189]

clearly you're f**ked - the fact that you've even gone on here to ask 'what should I do?' says that - best of luck, you're gonna need it! ;-)

Actually I thought I might have got a bit of sympathy of my fellow blues.
Now I'm like a nervous shitting dog.:)

 

[flook]

Actually I thought I might have got a bit of sympathy of my fellow blues.
Now I'm like a nervous shitting dog.:)

hahahahahaha

How long have you been here? 12 years?

 

[AliBobbyJ]

Francois Truffaut told the tale in "The Woman Next Door" (La Femme d' A Cote) in 1981 with Gerard Depardieu and Fanny Ardant. Old flames become neighbours and then there's guilt, passion (oh, the passion), secrets and what Roger Ebert called "the terrible consequences of a sin that started out small."
And that ending - bang! And Vive l'Amour!

You could all watch it together.

 

[Bill Walker]

Actually I thought I might have got a bit of sympathy of my fellow blues.
Now I'm like a nervous shitting dog.:)

Thing is mate, your fucked if you don't tell her and, depending on how jealous a person the wife is, you'll be fucked if you do tell her.

So, you're fucked !!

Hahaha

*Unless of course this is a huge wind up.

 

[LangleyBlue1970]

Nar mate the ex is small Petit and quiet.
The wife's battle hardened.
She will be crazy to start chatting rubbish.
I might offer to trim her bush as a peace offering.( We share the same hedge)

Yeah and word it exactly like that. ‘Shall I errr, trim your bush?’ Really emphasise the word trim.