Teenagers and violence

[N1985]

Still got married after getting lied to that her fella was Italian and was actually Albanian then had kids with him?

Fucking hell thought I'd made some terrible relationship choices.

Oh and I'd chuck the **** out. Can go and live with his Dad, Mario.

 

[mancityvstoke]

"The Yoof of Today" !!!

Yeah like we were all fucking angels :))

You especially............me and @Indaparkside were forced into our bad ways. Your honour.

 

[Mr Kobayashi]

Still got married after getting lied to that her fella was Italian and was actually Albanian then had kids with him?

I'm not sure the woman had much common sense. Italian and Albanian accents aren't exactly similar.

 

[N1985]

I'm not sure the woman had much common sense. Italian and Albanian accents aren't exactly similar.

I imagine her sight and hearing are absolutely fucked as well.

 

[Phil1]

You’d have thought she would have suspected something when all the measuring and weight scales in the kitchen cupboard were full of white powder but he’d never baked a cake in his life..

 

[Centur100ns]

I'm not sure the woman had much common sense. Italian and Albanian accents aren't exactly similar.

He had the foolproof cover of working in an Italian restaurant when she met him.

 

[deano ou812]

Give the lad a clip round the fucking ear,then send him to his dad to stay with see how that pans out you can bet he’ll want back to his mum within a month or two ..

 

[Aphex]

single mother households im afraid. controversial but true. dads walking away, mothers having zero power or struggling to raise a young man. discipline comes from the father.

I know what you are trying to say, but it's pretty much not the full story. There is a subset of kids who are just unruly, a father is not going to have much of an influence over a bad egg.

Personal experience, kids were a lot nastier when chavs existed. Mist kids I see are quite polite. Unless I've just been lucky.

 

[southamptonblue]

He had the foolproof cover of working in an Italian restaurant when she met him.

You said that he told her or she found out he was Albanian BEFORE she married him?? and still did!! So as nice a person as she may be (or not) she has the intelligence of a lump of lard.

 

[Centur100ns]

You said that he told her or she found out he was Albanian BEFORE she married him?? and still did!! So as nice a person as she may be (or not) she has the intelligence of a lump of lard.

I know, she was stupid for going ahead with it, he no doubt gave her a sob story as to why he lied and by that point she had strong feelings for him and as they say (supposed) love is blind.

There isn’t much she can do now about the mistake of marrying him and the discussion about how and why people get themselves in this situation is probably for another thread.

I was trying to understand if there is any other support out there for families where their child has turned into a complete twat with abusive behaviour.

There will no doubt be single parents out there that face similar problems where it isn’t through divorce and the other parent has passed away so there isn’t the choice to send the child to the other parent. What support do they get to deal with such a situation?