It isn't selfish, I've never nor will ever get an inheritance and that doesn't bother me, my and my wife's parents never owned anything but we've worked hard and made sacrifices to buy our house and now own it outright and I personally would be absolutely gutted if I ended up in a home and the government put an attachment on the house and my kids ended up with nothing. I know the response will be "well who should pay for my care" and I don't have an answer, but it is galling to know that someone who never worked a day in their life will get theirs for free.