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Give her a taste of her own medicine and reverse it,everytime she goes out text her,if she doesn't reply straight away phone her,keep doing it,i am sure she will get fed up before you do.
 
SteSteez said:
Thanks for the replies guys...

Many of the suggestions such as having a heart to heart we've had many times now, she is listening to my thoughts and feelings, changes for several weeks and everything is rosey, then bang she re-introduces this posessivenes and we're back to were we started.

I will probably end it with her, just a tough one as she is living here now, with all her stuff in my home.

She needs to realise her selfish behaviour, she thinks the whole world revolves around herself and my life has been affected by this interms of career and social life.
Maybe moving back to her fathers will make her realise this?

A good point raised by a previous poster here was the insecurities possibly stemming from her childhood.
Myself and my family have long suspected that her father is very controling and posessive himself, this was also confirmed by his ex-wife (my girlfriends mother)
Where now? well i'll chat to her at the weekend, and probably break the news, just hard getting her out of the house (without using force)
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Jerry Jerry Jerry?
 
dr leighton i think you should be the bluemoon agony aunt, and Timmmmahhhh that was so wrong but so funny!
 
SteSteez said:
Been with this woman for over a year now and although most of the time I enjoy her company - We are so consumed by each other that quality time usually turns into frustration resulting in arguments.

She has Anxiety issues that she says are related to previous relationships, where guys have cheated on her and the rest of it.
So i'm constantly being treated like I'm the bad guy - everywhere I go i'm questioned... One or two questions I could tolerate but being asked the same questions over and over and being txt 15+ times aday... it does get out of hand.

What you upto today? this is a normal question, however I get asked: will there be women there? your only going because there is women there... what time are you back? thats too late....

These kind of questions are asked when I go to football matches, martial arts classes, the gym and so on... if I was on the piss with mates then i'd understand her anxiety but I don't even drink.

Ladies and Gentlemen - what should I do?

My heart tells me to stick at it, she has a bright future ahead of her interms of career and she is intelligent, just a shame about these anxiety issues.

My head tells me to just cut my ties and force her to leave my house.
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god your lucky! my gf texts me about 70 times a day(not even exaggerating. sp?)

just let her know shes anoyying you and go from there..
 
I think Lee might be the one needing to get rid........

You serious, 70 times a day?????!!!

If I did that to my husband I'd be buried under a patio by now
 
Oh dear lord.. to be completely truthful there are girls like that.. if you have spoken about it before and she hasnt changed whats going to make her change now?

I wouldn't dream of texting that many times.. desperation is not a good look
 
Blumers Bloomers said:
I think Lee might be the one needing to get rid........

You serious, 70 times a day?????!!!

If I did that to my husband I'd be buried under a patio by now
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shes constanly texting - thats the downside of having a gf with unlimted texts


haha!
 
lee-mcfc said:
Blumers Bloomers said:
I think Lee might be the one needing to get rid........

You serious, 70 times a day?????!!!

If I did that to my husband I'd be buried under a patio by now
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shes constanly texting - thats the downside of having a gf with unlimted texts


haha!
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It;s the downside to having a gf with manic paranoia by the sounds of it.
 
LoL put a smile on my face these posts, talking about unlimited txtx and so on... Vodafone has alot to answer for in relationship breakups.

Right, today whilst she was at work I packed all of her stuff.. didn't shuvv loads of crap in binbags, properly organised everything, didn't trash anything.

All of her stuff is now back at her fathers, shes moved back there.
shes still even at this time of night crying to me, asking me to let her move back here as she doesn't like living at her fathers (hes very controlling and pesters her, exactly like she does with me)
And the house although its a big private house is stuck in the 18th century, freezing and all.

All this crap i'm being given so i'd sympathise and let her back here, but it ain't happening.
I wanna stay with her, but a relationship is all about mutual respect, 50/50, and with her its all or nothing, if something doesn't go her way its chaos.

I'll probably end up splitting from her for good though as I can't see her changing soon enough.
 
Sorry couldn't resist.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXYZWNguDD0&feature=related[/youtube]

What a song...
 
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