I have only been veggie for 2 years. Watched the game changers documentary on Netflix and although I took a lot of it with a pinch of salt, it was something which resonated with me, hence why I watched it in the first place.
Fully understand why you would not want to be preached to, who does. The only thing I would say as a defence is its quite difficult when you have experienced the tranformative benefits it is quite difficult not to encourage those close to you to try and adopt healthier ways of living. But I fully agree that does not mean you have to be solely veggie or vegan, but often the two seem to go hand in hand.
As for meals me and the missus are not the most adventurous of cooks but we do have stuff like Tofu Fajitas, Chick pea curry and lots of pasta dishes. We do eat a lot of the ‘fake’ sausages, chicken Kievs etc along with a portion of vegetable and sweet potatos.
The big change is in our breakfasts where we have a Spirulina based breakfast bowl with banana, Mango. Blueberries, broccolli, cucumber, spinach, chia, flax and pumpkin seeds. The taste and texture you get used to and it really sets you up for the day.