I have always seen us as just a fairly big club (in the same bracket as Spurs, Newcastle, Sunderland and Chelsea), with a fairly good support (we've had our seasons with an average of 16,000 and cup games with attendances between 8,000-12,000! the 28,000 in Div 2 thing is an overly used comment from City fans! and we're far too easy to jump on any other set of fans for having a shit attendance!)
Okay we've got money, a lot of money, more money than anyone else in world sport; but that doesnt automatically make us a big club! If i win £50million on the Euro Lotto on Firday does that make me posh?- No, it doesnt at all! But when i have kids they would grow up in a posh area and go to a posh school and they'd have posh friends etc. and they'd be posh! But at City now we need to build a pedegree up before we can be considered a big club (when i say big club i refer to Real Madrid, Barcelona, AC Milan, Bayern Munich, United and Liverpool - closely followed by Juventus, Arsenal, Valencia, Internazionale, Ajax and probably a few more i cant think of right now!)
It might take 10-20, maybe 50 years before we're considered in the same light as the very very big clubs as that's how long it takes to build up that pedegree!
City fans have, in the past, usually been a well grounded set of fans! But ive read and heard some ridiculous things coming from some blues already (and we've only had this money for 1 year!) And there is already some arrogance trickling into some City fans ways, thoughts and comments! and that is a real shame when you think of where we've come from since the early 80's as a yo-yo club for 20 years and the depths of the third tier of football in the late 90's! And when you look at what we hate United fans for!!!
But yeah, we're a fairly big club with a good bit of money behind us which potentially could propell us onto greatness in the next 25 years!