Would you accept an openly gay poster on this forum?

[MCFC BOB]

Do homosexuals ever need to "come out"?

I could just be being naive here, but if they want to be socially equal to heterosexuals, then why do they feel the need to broadcast their sexuality, or their sudden realisation that they like cock instead of muff?

I have several homosexual friends, and I'm not a homophobe at all. But being in the closet doesn't mean you have to be ashamed of your sexuality. If you are homosexual, then you live a homosexual life and let other figure it out for themselves. I know that if you don't "come out" then you are straight to the outside world, but turning up to a party one day with your partner who just happens to be the same sex as you, would gain you far more respect from other people than "coming out" and making a big scene about it would.

"Coming out" leaves people in a vulnerable position. My friend "came out" as bisexual three years ago, and to this day, people still come up to him and call him "Bi boy", "Gay boy" and they pass sly comments when teachers aren't around. Now, my friend is made of stern stuff and he's more likely to rip their eyes out than cry about it, but if someone was incredibly fragile emotionally, they could do themselves some serious damage through self-harm or letting the words of others get to them.

If I was homosexual, and if I was going to "come out", I would find myself a partner and do it that way. Having a same-sex partner is just like having an opposite-sex partner, and thus, should be publicised in the same way. Like I said, maybe I am being naive. I just don't understand why homosexuals feel the need to broadcast their sexuality more than heterosexuals do.

Someone could enlighten me and change my mind. I don't know.

Great post, thread is tongue in cheek. WE DON'T CARE

I know, but I wanted to know what other people thought and I start enough threads already. ^^

Nice to see you think it's a great post, though.

 

[ElanJo]

im gay for david silva..

I'd be gay with you just for the chance to be gay with David. :P

 

[lee-mcfc]

im gay for david silva..

I'd be gay with you just for the chance to be gay with David. :P

only david silva & mancini could turn me...............

 

[Wheelsy]

Lol ! Bluemooney, get out of the closet, we don't care

I was already out. I've said I'm gay on various threads in this place. Which means either people don't care or they have no interest in anything I have to say. :P

Who's the faggot in the pink?
Does your boyfriend know you're here?
You're gay, and we know you are!

I think that's out of my system now...

 

[JoeMercer'sWay]

i think with society at the moment people feel the need to justify themselves because homosexuals just aren't see as equal in large parts of society.

If they had nothing to worry about then they wouldn't feel the need to come out and justify themselves, if you get me Bob.

 

[law74]

The craigavon area, and its the friday night before christmas & im on bluemoon, might explain the quality of the local talent (either that or my bank balance)

Ha ha, small world, im pretty close then, Moira, you know it?

Nope, never heard of it, nor have I ever had a few beers in the Four trees, The Barn or had a couple in Normans before going to place a bet or two in Tommy French's, or stopped on the way from Belfast to get a carryout in Supervalue, Tipplers or the winemark.
Where is this Moira place again?
lol
(I used to be in Normans nearly every Saturday from about 11am until the bus left to go to Windsor, but i dont think I have been in it since it changed to pretty Mary's)

 

[Balti]

someone's a gay
someone else isn't
yawn

 

[Anonymous]

Absolutely ducky .....

unless , of course , he was wearin' red!

 

[Balti]

Absolutely ducky!

ooh you are awful!

 

[Anonymous]

Absolutely ducky!

ooh you are awful!

hehe ......

each to his own , that's what i say ...

after all , we're all boys togther here , aren't we?