Young love 'n' stuff - a kid in need!

[MCFC BOB]

I'm not worried about whether she's cheating on me because... well, I know she isn't. There's way too many reasons why I know, but yeah...

I do just need some advice on how not to cry like a weeping willow whenever I see her being anything but horrible to boys who like her.

woman are naturally flirtatious - although it can be hard to judge whether they are just being friendly or something more ominous

at least you know what you are doing wrong.. just hide those feelings away from her. we've all felt it at some point.

We've both discussed my feelings, and it turns out she feels the same way whenever a girl is near me. Ah well, I'll soldier on. xD

 

[glen quagmire]

Bob get ready for this lad, as i'm going to post something serious!

You both are both youngsters, living 200 miles apart, you don't have the resources or finances to see each other every week, so temptation will rear it's ugly head a lot!
What's difficult is the fact, she sees these people every day, and with partying and socialising comes boozing and maybe even recreational drug use. This lowers the moral barriers and i'm afraid, your mrs is getting attention from those immediatley around her. I don't really believe in long distance relationships, as they very seldom work.


I hope i'm wrong, i'm not saying every girl would cheat in that position, i am saying that you are both young and have your whole lives ahead of you. Don't worry yourself pal, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, getting anxious will only bring negativity into play, if that happens it'll be all doom and gloom.


Now enough of the seriousness, i'm off to parody threads and smash back doors in.................................................giggity.

 

[Anonymous]

woman are naturally flirtatious - although it can be hard to judge whether they are just being friendly or something more ominous

at least you know what you are doing wrong.. just hide those feelings away from her. we've all felt it at some point.

We've both discussed my feelings, and it turns out she feels the same way whenever a girl is near me. Ah well, I'll soldier on. xD

the only way you will ever work it out is by making mistakes for yourself

one mans advice is another's failure - do what you feel is right

believe me, you can't pretend when it comes to things like this mate :)

 

[masterwig]

Well, I'm going to ignore the "she's being smashed by someone else" replies because I've seen it all before. ;)

So basically you want everyone to come on and say there's nothing to worry about.

Either you're being naive, burying your head in the sand and she is being unfaithful or you're being overly insecure about it all.

You say you trust her so why then are you worried? Either you trust her or you don't.

Going around punching people who fancy her is not only a massive show of insecurity but I doubt very much it will impress her.

A long-distance relationship at your age is something that puzzles me but there we go.

I'd be wary of steaming in and asking her outright. I'd say something like 'you know I get quite jealous when I see you flirting with others or when they say things about you'. That way you can dress it up as a compliment to her and how much you like her. Watch for her reaction.

My biggest advice would be don't put too much into it. It is hard but these things at your age more often than not end in heartbreak. Years down the line you'll look back and laugh at how silly you were to become so emotionally involved.

I hope for you everything turns out good and some of what I said isn't what you want to hear. Just my honest views.

 

[kippaxwarrior]

Bob get ready for this lad, as i'm going to post something serious!

You both are both youngsters, living 200 miles apart, you don't have the resources or finances to see each other every week, so temptation will rear it's ugly head a lot!
What's difficult is the fact, she sees these people every day, and with partying and socialising comes boozing and maybe even recreational drug use. This lowers the moral barriers and i'm afraid, your mrs is getting attention from those immediatley around her. I don't really believe in long distance relationships, as they very seldom work.


I hope i'm wrong, i'm not saying every girl would cheat in that position, i am saying that you are both young and have your whole lives ahead of you. Don't worry yourself pal, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, getting anxious will only bring negativity into play, if that happens it'll be all doom and gloom.


Now enough of the seriousness, i'm off to parody threads and smash back doors in.................................................giggity.

Good words of advice about relationships from Glen Qaugmire?
I dont believe it

 

[MCFC BOB]

Well, I'm going to ignore the "she's being smashed by someone else" replies because I've seen it all before. ;)

So basically you want everyone to come on and say there's nothing to worry about.

No, but I know that some posters will just say "he's ripping her a new one" just to make fun.

Either you're being naive, burying your head in the sand and she is being unfaithful or you're being overly insecure about it all.

Insecure sounds like it to be honest.

You say you trust her so why then are you worried? Either you trust her or you don't.

When I worry, I worry about them kissing her, not her kissing them.

Going around punching people who fancy her is not only a massive show of insecurity but I doubt very much it will impress her.

Well, I wouldn't. It was kind of a mixed up turn of phrase. Me, punch someone? I'm stick thin and scared to death of scuffles.

A long-distance relationship at your age is something that puzzles me but there we go.

That's the days of the internet for ya.

I'd be wary of steaming in and asking her outright. I'd say something like 'you know I get quite jealous when I see you flirting with others or when they say things about you'. That way you can dress it up as a compliment to her and how much you like her. Watch for her reaction.

I have done, and she feels the same way when I'm in pictures with girls etc. I'm not the partying type, and I've been sober all my life, but she still worries.

My biggest advice would be don't put too much into it. It is hard but these things at your age more often than not end in heartbreak. Years down the line you'll look back and laugh at how silly you were to become so emotionally involved.

Well, I'll have to wait and see.

I hope for you everything turns out good and some of what I said isn't what you want to hear. Just my honest views.

And thank you.

 

[Blue Smarties]

She's getting extra dick and you're sitting on Bluemoon. Get a FWB, the future.

 

[glen quagmire]

She's getting extra dick and you're sitting on Bluemoon. Get a FWB, the future.

Ignore all other advice, take this and run with it! Good call my friend.

 

[ono]

Mate, i'm in a similar situation with Gate. Sort of. Well it's different, but it's annoying.

I've come to the conclusion that all women are complete headfucks.

What everyone else has said about her not being the one you'll spend your life with are probably true. But that's not what you want to hear right now. Just comfort yourself with the notion everytime she pisses you off.

You're in a shitty situation where acting insecure will push her away (potentially). But then if you make out you're not bothered, that could be a bad thing aswell. It's shit when it's not in your hands.

I understand that nobody on here can say anything that will probably have any effect on you, but i know it's good to talk. :-)

Good luck.

 

[masterwig]

What's an FWB?

I know FB is fuck buddy, what does the W stand for? FWP is friend with privileges yeah?