1961_vintage
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Ammy said:
Most of them are just bullshitters hoping to get a sympathy shag.
However back on topic, my biggest flaw is that I can be a touch cynical at times.
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Your biggest flaw.
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Most of them are just bullshitters hoping to get a sympathy shag.
However back on topic, my biggest flaw is that I can be a touch cynical at times.
LongLang
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Bibinho said:I'm too nice and dont stand up for myself. I always go out my way to help someone if I know I can help but very rarely get it in return.
This kind of.
I'll always help someone out if they ask, regardless of the impact it might have at home. Often leading to spending less time with the mrs and daughter.
I never ask anyone for help and so I can't say I don't get it in return.
Also, within work, I have been trying to help out a fellow manager who's back is against the wall a little bit due to not delivering expectations, with little to no clerical work in order to back up reasons to his failings. All I get in return for this is to be told to keep my nose out with some barbed jibe or other(in front of his department is some ridiculous attempt to belittle me).
The trouble is, I have known the bloke years, and although he can be a ****, he's OUR ****, if you get my meaning.
I don't want to see him get the sack, but the guy just won't listen.
I take it on the chin, no need to rise to the sad twat, as I am delivering, so I have no need to worry, it just frustrates me that I'm taking my time to help him and he isn't even gracious enough to say thank you.
I know its all a shield and really he is shitting it, but he is too stubborn to accept help.
At least i Can't say I haven't tried.
I need to learn to say no and prioritise MY family before I help someone else's.
Ducado
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Ammy said:Isn't it surprising just how many people feel insecure and lacking in self- confidence.
Everyone thinks that everyone else is ok...
I think some of those saying it (me included) were posting with a little irony
Every single one of us has a crisis of confidence in some situation or other in life, it's perfectly normal
jimharri
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Er; moving swiftly on....1961_vintage said:Ammy said:Isn't it surprising just how many people feel insecure and lacking in self- confidence.
Everyone thinks that everyone else is ok...
Most of them are just bullshitters hoping to get a sympathy shag.
However back on topic, my biggest flaw is that I can be a touch cynical at times.
Sparkys-Army
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The fact I'm cross eyed and when I go to draw pictures with my kids, mine are shit compared to theirs. I often walk into stationary objects because of this too, last week, I walked into a bus wearing my mothers summery dress.
At least I've come to terms with this. Have I mentioned I've been dishonest about coming out of the closet to my family and friends?
That's it. I'm pretty perfect otherwise. I once farted on a hedgehog and cried from feeling insecure. I love my life.
At least I've come to terms with this. Have I mentioned I've been dishonest about coming out of the closet to my family and friends?
That's it. I'm pretty perfect otherwise. I once farted on a hedgehog and cried from feeling insecure. I love my life.
jimharri
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A bus was wearing your mum's dress? You should have got a picture!Sparkys-Army said:The fact I'm cross eyed and when I go to draw pictures with my kids, mine are shit compared to theirs. I often walk into stationary objects because of this too, last week, I walked into a bus wearing my mothers summery dress.
At least I've come to terms with this. Have I mentioned I've been dishonest about coming out of the closet to my family and friends?
That's it. I'm pretty perfect otherwise. I once farted on a hedgehog and cried from feeling insecure. I love my life.
Ducado said:Ammy said:Isn't it surprising just how many people feel insecure and lacking in self- confidence.
Everyone thinks that everyone else is ok...
I think some of those saying it (me included) were posting with a little irony
Every single one of us has a crisis of confidence in some situation or other in life, it's perfectly normal
Kalouk and Girl Bob weren't being even slightly ironic.
Ducado
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Ammy said:Ducado said:Ammy said:Isn't it surprising just how many people feel insecure and lacking in self- confidence.
Everyone thinks that everyone else is ok...
I think some of those saying it (me included) were posting with a little irony
Every single one of us has a crisis of confidence in some situation or other in life, it's perfectly normal
Kalouk and Girl Bob weren't being even slightly ironic.
I know many women have self confidence issues especially when it comes to their bodies and looks, which is not surprising really when most media images are photo shopped to hell, and hold up an entirely false sense of perfection and beauty (which happens to change depending on century or culture we are living in)
Hamann Pineapple
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ban-mcfc said:impatience.
alcoholism.
not thinking before speaking.
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Blue Maverick
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I'm cynical about life, I don't know where it stems from but I think if it can happen badly it probably will. Also I think far too much about things when maybe I should just let things run their course. Finally I speak my mind I call a spade a spade, although with age I've tempered this slightly.