Me too mate, only I was just 9. My dad and grandad took me. I was devastated when Richards scored for them late on - an absolute travesty given that we'd laid siege to their goal almost throughout. I had a proper paddy and ended up getting my legs slapped for good measure!
In terms of an absolute trough of despair though, nothing will ever beat how I felt when Fat Bob put Gillingham 2 up at Wembley. That felt like the end of the world, that it would never be our turn. Absolutely soul destroying.
Ooh and going back even further, I was in floods of tears when the BBC pulled the ECWC final against Gornik on the day of the game in order to show the Chelsea vs Leeds Cup Final replay instead. I think it might even have been my 6th birthday and I'd been as excited as an excited thing all day, looking forward to seeing us on the telly, and what I got instead was dirty Leeds and Ian Hutchinson's stupid long throw ins.
In terms of anger and being cheated I'd go with that ridiculous penalty decision at the Swamp in the Cup after Uwe had put us ahead. I was raging for days after that one