foggy1974
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When my daughter was being bullied at secondry school, my wife contacted the school and threaten to self teach her and get ofsted involved. The school was more proactive after that.
You may want to ask the Chair of Governors for all correspondence regarding previous incidents. You are entitled to this through a Freedom Of Information Request too, if the school is a public body. This includes all and any email correspondence between staff.My lad has been being bullied at school for 3 yrs, always the same, pacification of us we will monitor it blah blah then a couple of month later either the same boys or their mates , brothers, cousins pick on him again.
My lads a bit chubby and gets all the usual fat lad jokes daily and copes with it (well pretends too but his self confidence is shot) but it seems to go from name calling to hands on at times, usually when he has told them to fuck off or given them some shit back (he isn't a wall flower despite all this, he just isn't an aggressive lad YET)
In spite of all this he refuses to move schools away from his mates and he is a popular boy with teachers and most kids
Today I had to pick him up at dinner time with a suspected broken arm. Later confirmed at Stepping Hill. I told the nurse about how he has been being bullied for yrs but the school fail to deal with it. She told me it was disgusting and boys will be boys but when it ends up with broken bones it is time to act. So with my permission she has lodged a safeguarding concern with the school. Within 10 mins of getting the email 6 teachers were trying to get to the bottom of what happened.
I remember reading another poster getting some advice on Safeguarding reports and just wonder what the nuts and bolts are.
Any help Blues?
Hope you get this sorted mate.My lad has been being bullied at school for 3 yrs, always the same, pacification of us we will monitor it blah blah then a couple of month later either the same boys or their mates , brothers, cousins pick on him again.
My lads a bit chubby and gets all the usual fat lad jokes daily and copes with it (well pretends too but his self confidence is shot) but it seems to go from name calling to hands on at times, usually when he has told them to fuck off or given them some shit back (he isn't a wall flower despite all this, he just isn't an aggressive lad YET)
In spite of all this he refuses to move schools away from his mates and he is a popular boy with teachers and most kids
Today I had to pick him up at dinner time with a suspected broken arm. Later confirmed at Stepping Hill. I told the nurse about how he has been being bullied for yrs but the school fail to deal with it. She told me it was disgusting and boys will be boys but when it ends up with broken bones it is time to act. So with my permission she has lodged a safeguarding concern with the school. Within 10 mins of getting the email 6 teachers were trying to get to the bottom of what happened.
I remember reading another poster getting some advice on Safeguarding reports and just wonder what the nuts and bolts are.
Any help Blues?
^^^ this lad is probably right, email keeps things on records better than phone calls. Shame but that's the way it is.Safeguarding is an ofsted trigger so they will be looking to sort out asap.
I'd email everything from now on to keep a paper chain.