After 4 months of this madness, generally speaking countries are where they are based on their strategy.
In a battle of virus /humanity you would think that the only strategy is total resistance but a small group of countries have adopted the resistance is futile approach. Their intention is not to suppress the virus entirely but to shield their most vulnerable people, and to flatten the epidemic's peak by limited measures whilst allowing the virus to spread at a controlled rate.
If resistance is futile, then the area under everyone's curve is the same, and it is better for society to do it quickly rather than slowly (but not so quick that it overwhelms your health system). Most countries have the economic strength for one lockdown but that would be it.
The countries following this strategy have generally higher death rates as you would naturally expect but they are also closer to the end of the tunnel and are insured by some limited immunity against the devastating effects of a 2nd lockdown.
If you look at it from the point of herd immunity advocates then you can't compare deaths by country now because some countries are just much further along in their eventual infection than others, and they will all get their in the end.
The problem with this strategy is that it ignores the fact that humanity will more than likely outwit the virus. However, it is a conservative strategy with some merit. It is a long and hard strategy but it is guaranteed to get there. Nations like South Korea resist through operating very smartly but you cannot operate under siege forever.
It feels a little safer in the UK because I am already pretty confident that the UK wont go through another 2nd wave because so many people have already been infected, however that is not a reason to be happy because it came at a high price.
I don't really think you can say that there is a right way and a wrong way to do this. There are different strategies that take different routes based largely on expectations of the timing of a vaccine. Should a society battle to save every life knowing that if a vaccine is 18 months away then probably more people will die in the long run?
As the moment the pendulum has swung towards total resistance because the vaccines are all lining up and there is no scientific reason I am aware of as to why a vaccine can not and will not be successful. I think it would be wise for the Oxford vaccine group to expand their trial to somewhere like Moscow where the virus is growing fast, but if they could I think they would have done. So now we just wait and hope. I expect we'll know before May is out.