Yes.
I've also begun to realise that our nation is full of absolute twats. It's permeated with them. From silly things yesterday like me being stuck in the outside lane because some dickhead decides he wants to do 60 in a 70 limit, blocking the entire lane and then because I was stuck in the outside lane behind about 10 cars, trying to get left to make my turn off, another dickhead refuses to let me in after 1/4 mile of me indicating. And then when I push myself in - because I have to - he gives me the Vs. What an absolute twat.
Then at the supermarket, the woman with 3 loaves of the reduced bread under her arm sees me arriving about to take the remaining one, and snatches it away when my hand is like a foot away, leaving me with no bread. What a ****.
The country is jam packed with them. The tossers who truck up at these raves know full well they are illegal, but they have fuck all respect for the law and figure "well, what are the police going to do about it". It's a shite attitude. Maybe if they thought (a) they might actually get fined and (b) the fines were big enough, they might think twice about it.
Without wanting to get all zen, you have to appreciate that there's balance there.
When the first lockdown came into place, self preservation kicked in and basic consideration for others went out the window. Not only were selfish twats filling up multiple trolleys with a ridiculous amount of toilet roll and dried goods but there were people genuinely hanging about the bottom of Hathersage Road outside the MRI trying to pinch NHS passes off staff as they left the building. Absolutely dispicable behaviour and, yes, it does make you take a more cynical approach.
But it must be said that there are plenty of people out there doing good. I'm not talking about tokenistic gestures like standing outside and clapping but there are charitable organisations looking to help as well as individuals looking to help where they can. In our area, there were people going door to door and leaving contact details to offer their services by getting shopping for people at risk.
I think some people, like you and I, are seemingly more wired to pick up on the negative interactions and ignore the good deeds. If you're driving and someone lets you pass before them (might not be a good example, I don't drive) then you're going to forget about it two minutes later when some dickhead inevitably swerves in front of you and cuts you off.
Also, something I don't think you're taking into consideration is that you can put whatever fine or whatever strongly worded statement out there that you want and a lot of young people will still ignore it. They're still at a point in their lives where they feel invincible and they've not necessarily had the experience of seeing their actions come back to bite themselves or others on the arse.
Again, there's a flip side to that and there are plenty of young people out their acting responsibility and doing more than their part to help others.
This is why I made those comments about social media and the news at large. The focus is on the negatives because that will always bring the most attention. At times when we're so deprived of regular human interaction, I think it's important to take yourself out of this image being painted for us and simply interact with what we can, when we can.
There's enough to be aggrieved about in our day to day lives without allowing carefully selected information to further dishearten us than is necessary. I'm not saying you should be wilfully ignorant but you aren't currently going to find a worldview online that will adequately replace the life you lead before covid.
So limit what you're reading and be critical when you do read it because it is borderline impossible to not react emotionally to the things being put in front of you when they're being put in front of you to provoke an emotional reaction.
For every tosser out there, there's a genuinely good person. Some good people break the law and some tossers uphold it.