BlueMoonAcrossThePond
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Anyone else have a close relative whose politics/beliefs you simply don't fathom?
My brother is one such. He claims to be "very spiritual" - and further does not wish to associate with those holding opposing views. He and I grew up as Catholics - but he no longer believes in Catholicism - I think he's Buddhist.
Although my brother has a bachelor's degree in Chemical Engineering - and although he worked in engineering/tech firms - he has a bias against science and expert opinion.
For years past my brother was a climate change denier - eventually he accepted that climate change is occurring but he believes that it's possible/likely that climate change is occuring for reasons other than human activity. Too he seems to regard the expert opinion about COVID as being untrue.
If you speak to my brother he'll profess expertise on climate change/COVID - on the basis of extensive "research" he's conducted. Whereas if you drill down on his claims, it turns out that he's simply read a bunch of non-scientific opinion pieces available online and on this basis feels he's expert and well qualified to contest widely held scientific opinion. He readily admits that his chief source for information he trusts is twitter.
In the recent past, my brother emailed an article about polar bears. The article falsely claimed that polar bears were not in danger of going extinct due to climate change - but were instead proliferating. The article attacked David Attenborough as being completely wrong about polar bears and their diminishing numbers.
I readily debunked this article and sent an angry response to my brother. He agreed that the article he sent seemed to have been false - but he defended his distribution of this false narrative as simply being a story of interest.
Moreover, my brother's opinions on numerous topics are extreme. Using grey-scale as an analogy,virtually nothing is grey for him - everything is either black or white with nothing in between.
For example - he believes that it's wrong to kill life, ever, under any circumstance. Should we be invaded by bloodthirsty barbarians who were killing our men and boys, and raping our women - he believes that it's wrong to take the life of any such invader.
Another example - in terms of surveillance as a means to provide extra security and justice - e.g, the widespread use of cameras to record what transpires - well, to him, that's simply an invasion of privacy and he'd rather that no cameras at all recorded anything in public, period.
But what about public violence - murders, robbers and other crimes committed in public? - I questioned. Surely you'd want to prevent these or, if such crimes did nonetheless occur, surely you'd want to apprehend those guilty.
Nope - to him - any deployment of cameras to record actions taken in public is a violation of privacy and must be rejected.
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Due to disagreements on the issues above and on other things on which my brother took a radical, polarized view, we haven't spoken in 3 or 4 years; one of the ideas my brother found on the Internet and later endorsed was the idea that you would be happier by cutting all communication with anyone who disagrees with you.
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Anyhow - I'm bewildered. How could someone I grew up with somehow come to endorse extreme opinions on so many social issues? Moreover, how could my brother - a college graduate with a career in science/technology come to reject consensus scientific/expert beliefs?
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One final anecdote - at one point my brother was trying to make the case for meditation. I said that I wasn't interested. This evolved into an argument. Eventually my brother said that, through meditation, he was able to conduct a scientific experiment into the existence of God. He stated that he was able to confirm the existence of God because, after meditation, he was able to feel/hear/experience God's presence.
Let that sink in - my brother believes that he has scientific proof for the existence of God.
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How on earth did this sort of wrong-think come to pass?
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Look - I don't believe in God - but I get that many Bluemoon members do; and I respect this.
Belief in God is a very personal choice - but it's beyond the scope of science. One can neither prove nor disprove the existence of God.
What I find so disturbing in my bother's beliefs - is that he seems to think that he is able to scientifically prove that God exists - and that anyone not believing in God is evil and should thus be avoided. In other words - my brother has no idea whatsoever about what science entails and seems to have wholly forgotten the scientific method.
My brother is one such. He claims to be "very spiritual" - and further does not wish to associate with those holding opposing views. He and I grew up as Catholics - but he no longer believes in Catholicism - I think he's Buddhist.
Although my brother has a bachelor's degree in Chemical Engineering - and although he worked in engineering/tech firms - he has a bias against science and expert opinion.
For years past my brother was a climate change denier - eventually he accepted that climate change is occurring but he believes that it's possible/likely that climate change is occuring for reasons other than human activity. Too he seems to regard the expert opinion about COVID as being untrue.
If you speak to my brother he'll profess expertise on climate change/COVID - on the basis of extensive "research" he's conducted. Whereas if you drill down on his claims, it turns out that he's simply read a bunch of non-scientific opinion pieces available online and on this basis feels he's expert and well qualified to contest widely held scientific opinion. He readily admits that his chief source for information he trusts is twitter.
In the recent past, my brother emailed an article about polar bears. The article falsely claimed that polar bears were not in danger of going extinct due to climate change - but were instead proliferating. The article attacked David Attenborough as being completely wrong about polar bears and their diminishing numbers.
I readily debunked this article and sent an angry response to my brother. He agreed that the article he sent seemed to have been false - but he defended his distribution of this false narrative as simply being a story of interest.
Moreover, my brother's opinions on numerous topics are extreme. Using grey-scale as an analogy,virtually nothing is grey for him - everything is either black or white with nothing in between.
For example - he believes that it's wrong to kill life, ever, under any circumstance. Should we be invaded by bloodthirsty barbarians who were killing our men and boys, and raping our women - he believes that it's wrong to take the life of any such invader.
Another example - in terms of surveillance as a means to provide extra security and justice - e.g, the widespread use of cameras to record what transpires - well, to him, that's simply an invasion of privacy and he'd rather that no cameras at all recorded anything in public, period.
But what about public violence - murders, robbers and other crimes committed in public? - I questioned. Surely you'd want to prevent these or, if such crimes did nonetheless occur, surely you'd want to apprehend those guilty.
Nope - to him - any deployment of cameras to record actions taken in public is a violation of privacy and must be rejected.
===
Due to disagreements on the issues above and on other things on which my brother took a radical, polarized view, we haven't spoken in 3 or 4 years; one of the ideas my brother found on the Internet and later endorsed was the idea that you would be happier by cutting all communication with anyone who disagrees with you.
===
Anyhow - I'm bewildered. How could someone I grew up with somehow come to endorse extreme opinions on so many social issues? Moreover, how could my brother - a college graduate with a career in science/technology come to reject consensus scientific/expert beliefs?
===
One final anecdote - at one point my brother was trying to make the case for meditation. I said that I wasn't interested. This evolved into an argument. Eventually my brother said that, through meditation, he was able to conduct a scientific experiment into the existence of God. He stated that he was able to confirm the existence of God because, after meditation, he was able to feel/hear/experience God's presence.
Let that sink in - my brother believes that he has scientific proof for the existence of God.
===
How on earth did this sort of wrong-think come to pass?
===
Look - I don't believe in God - but I get that many Bluemoon members do; and I respect this.
Belief in God is a very personal choice - but it's beyond the scope of science. One can neither prove nor disprove the existence of God.
What I find so disturbing in my bother's beliefs - is that he seems to think that he is able to scientifically prove that God exists - and that anyone not believing in God is evil and should thus be avoided. In other words - my brother has no idea whatsoever about what science entails and seems to have wholly forgotten the scientific method.
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