For me its simple, nearly every call is a judgement. There can't be consistency, no two fouls are the same, handballs, penalties etc. Impossible to put a definable workframe around that.
We're running around in circles defining and redefining rules.
The poison around every decision made.
The mistakes are still there (to a lesser degree obvs)
The game has become more managed stopping the free flowing brilliant game we have.
We don't actually know what constitues a penalty, free kick, red card, yellow, handball.....
None of this things existed before VAR.
Let the ref make the decisions, the judgement calls, leave it at that, accept their mistakes, make VAR less intrusive. Because I fear this is an Americanisation of our game, adding technology, adding drama, adding fluff, making the game a tv event instead of spectator event.
VAR has its uses, the best one for me is refs being held to account by a backup team of refs. But even that doesn't work, all the VAR team in the arsenal game agreed with that red card decision..... 7 people or whatever and it still couldn't get it right.
Take VAR away and we're left with just the ref mistakes (that we will always have clearly) and none of the bullshit VAR has brought to the game. It'll never happen though, refs used to make wrong calls and were lambasted for it, now they get death threats and family having to be protected.