It's really difficult at this time of year. Most parents, with younger children especially, have to use their leave on school holidays, and the summer hols take a big chunk of that. By the time we get to this point on the year it's a struggle, for example I have only 4 days of 5 covered of the October half term as it is and I'm out of leave so reliant on a holiday club or playdate for the little one. Just no wriggle room.
I get that workers feel the need to do this, and maybe it's deserved, certainly as a parent I would much prefer a happy, well paid, driver to ferry my eldest daughter around. As someone who drives a fair bit too, I also appreciate that it's a tough job and needs complete concentration, especially I can imagine for a bus load of kids, if not danger money given some driving standards nowadays! But when a withdrawal of service affects the kids it's a sore point and I certainly heard that this morning amongst parents.
For me, as I have a younger one to get to primary school too, it makes it much harder to get two kids to two different places, and this is the case for many parents unfortunately. And that's with my work being lenient but against a backdrop of us facing a 20% reduction on headcount, and we've seen huge increases in employee pay and employer contributions that have fuelled an inflation where were all worse off. So there lots going on for everyone. Loads are stressed, loads are worse off, so if any one group stands up and says "we want more" then its a hard sell nowadays even before you get to the why.
I think in reality I'm going to have to take both with me early to secondary school to drop off the eldest, as she has to be in earlier, then drive back to primary school for the youngest. Unfortunately that means one less space in the car for pooling anyway, but the only kid that goes to the same secondary school living nearby is an older lad who we don't really know so not sure anyone would be too comfortable with that. Either that or a taxi each way which is me paying about twenty quid out or something and no walk for the dog that day either, as we usually walk him to primary school, poor sod! Don't even want to think about picking up, that'll be hell with loads more parents on the road rushing to get back to work. But you're right, there should be more car sharing in situations like this, but there won't be. Everyone has their own situation, and many just have blinkers on for their own lives only.
Not sure what else the schools can do. They're looking at opening up earlier and later but their own staff have kids too. We've already seen school trips cancelled this year because they just couldn't afford the transport and parents couldn't or wouldn't support it. The primary school has said they'll consider letting more kids (younger years) walk alone home with permission, again not sure that the parents will be a fan of that. As school only started back up again in the last week or two, there are lots of very nervous parents and kids out there who are very unsure and the whole getting to and from school thing as it is. Many kids are entrusted with money, a card, bus pass, phone, a set of keys etc for the first time, plus they've got big school to deal with, and so it's not great timing from that point of view either, and I think that is fuelling some of it too.
It's only a few days and I'm sure we'll survive, but unfortunately there is a definite direct impact here of this strike for the kids, and ultimately on many families financially. So understandably there isn't much sympathy, instead anger, from many parents on this situation.