You're being disingenuous, the net is a cacophony of noise with topics and threads on everything and nothing and this place is no different. Of course you and I have a right to express an opinion, and those opinions hold up to scrutiny or not, but we're not Americans, that matters, but clearly I'm not making my point as well as I should.
I suspect you don't know much about Nigeria, most Brits don't, we should, as we ran the place for over 100 years and it is said that the country's borders, that still exist today, were sketched out on the back of a napkin by Lord Lugard in his London club in 1900. I spent nearly three years of my life in the early 80s travelling the length and breadth of the country, I know quite a bit about the place, even today, though its been 20 years since I visited. There are many tribes but the big three are the Hausa the Igbo and the Yoruba. I know about their history, their cuisine, their culture, their fabulous music, I had a Nigerian girlfriend for a while. But as much as I know, the place is still a mystery, because I'm not Nigerian, I don't know what it is to be Nigerian, how Nigerians feel about their country.
This is not about what they want, most people are the same in that regard, they want peace, food on the table, a roof over their heads, freedom from sickness, to raise their kids as best they can and dignity in old age, they're universal wants.
What I'm talking about is a state of being, to be an American, to be a Brit, to be a Nigerian, regardless of all this global village crap, who we are, what we believe, even how we think, is wrapped up in our nationality, our ethnicity, our culture, our sense of oneness with our people.
Problem with America is, while everyone might accept that to understand Nigeria one really needs to be Nigerian, the same is never said of America. It seems that every man and his dog feels free to prognosticate all day long about the land of the free and the brave, and that's because we all feel we know it, from our holidays, from TV and movies, increasingly from the internet, but this is an illusion, we don't.
I genuinely believe this, that's why I step back from time to time, I suspect you do not believe this, and that's why you don't.