LCBblue said:
He evidently has the right attitude to be successful at that high level of football and if he continues with that attitude he'll do well. I have a similar attitude, realism, perseverance and determination, the 'leader of the team' so to speak, now obviously he's new to the team so his confidence in communication on the pitch wont be high but if he can develop that 'chin up lads, keep playing our normal game' type of attitude he'll do well.
Good on him for the call and I'm sure he'll deffo enjoy the travelling, and he'll form a lot of new mates, just as I did all those years ago.
I'd imagine you'd need to be exceptional to make one of the Academy programs in England with the number of kids pushing for those spots. It's similar to how hockey is in Canada. Parents are paying $10,000 a year to have their kid play competitive hockey hoping they'll make it to the NHL with the reality being that roughly 1 in 10,000 kids playing will get a chance at the big time. If you aren't already playing top tier youth hockey at 12 years old, your chances are just about zero of ever making it as a pro.
As for my son, his can-do attitude generally applies to soccer and school, but not so much household chores. :) I guess you choose your battles though. Perserverance and determination is definitely something I've groomed into him through my time coaching him. I've always emphasized that he should do everything to the best of his ability, especially training if he wants to be a great player.
He's a bit of a quiet leader, as he isn't the most vocal but leads by example on the field. He's the kid still playing a 110% even when the game seems out of reach and has on several occassions willed his teams into wins. He'll be reuniting with a couple of old teammates on this team from his U9 & U10 team which he's happy about and knows a few others from school friends so I'm sure he'll fit right in. He's really enjoying the notion of being on a travelling team and getting to see new places. I'm happy for him to be getting the chance to take a shot at doing something he loves to do.