Damocles said:
He posted both sides, so he'll claim a victory in the future either way.
The emboldened quote is so unbelievably arrogant, that I'm actually struggling to believe that he has written it.
There was no intention to sound arrogant but as this thread has developed my opinion has been challenged and I wanted to make it clear that I in no way intend to gloat about Balo's situation.
As for posting both sides you could construe it that way, but my original post on the thread was perhaps a tad harsh and as the conversation progressed it softened when other factors were brought forwards.
You see Dam' I dont have to take a position and be immovable, perhaps ignoring the facts as they are laid out in front of me. I am able to deal with, on occasion being wrong but also being right but using the wrong language in being right.
I reckon that Bluemoon would be a much more settled place if fewer people thought of themselves as the only source of an opinion of value, and felt confident and able enough to agree with the contrary thoughts of others, perhaps even accepting they have merit and amending a viewpoint accordingly?
My opinion on Balo' is therefore summed up as - lets get him out of the limelight as he apparently (and his own pleas prove this) needs help, he is not best served being thrust into the fray in his current mental state.
If he needs to find another club to succeed rather than remain at City, where he is on a path of apparent self-destructive behaviour then I wish the lad well.
However if he wants to stay at City he has to show he is ready for that challenge and my eyes tell me he isn't, he is too fragile mentally. So he needs to be shown that he has no right to play for City until he changes for the better.
It may well be that he does not have the capacity to see that for himself but others at the club will be, and should take the appropriate action rather than taking a risk with the massive potential that Balo' obviously possesses.
The quote you emboldened -
Was maybe poorly stated or maybe taken the wrong way. What I meant to say remains the same however.
If he is put into action again I fear he may well (i think very likely to) continue to behave irrationally and it could worsen his future prospects at City (maybe that is part of his plan, to get back to Italy?) and so I think he should be rested and given the help he so clearly needs.
I know you have a lot invested in Balo', you like him, you think he will be a great player but i also wonder if that has blinded you a little to what I was saying about saving his career in the long term rather than getting him to perform NOW.
But as wel balanced grown ups we can debate that can't we?