mat said:
Bigga said:
Oh, he'll walk alright! The fella's totally possessive, jealous and submissive!! It's hilarious! He'll be in the vicinity of her within seconds at his own choice!
But, she also demands the attention and he willingly plays ball. I guarantee you he WILL walk, if she walks!
I'm not sure he comes across as a "Win at any costs" kind of wanker.
Normally, I'd certainly agree with you. But, the equation has changed radically for him. If his gf wasn't there, he'd be 'win at all costs' so she'd have something else to amazed with him about. Apart from being able to get into clubs, running restaurants, winning Big Bro would be the uppermost.
BUT, she IS there and she strips him of his 'power'. You must see it with the constant hugs HE gives HER. Does she reciprocate? Not unless he tells her, really.
That's power from her and helplessness from him!