Biggest regret and why.

Missing the QPR game. broke me leg few days before and had to have an operation. My dad went on season ticket instead, he owes me big time.
 
bluemoon risin' said:
Same here GDM. I regret it mostly too as I've since been the part time father to my girls when most loving yet estranged part time parents feel like they have spent the years on the outside looking in. That said, I have done my best for my girls and spent as much quality time that I have been able to have with them.
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I can relate to both these posts far too well.
 
I was a bit of a dickhead through my early teens but turned things around by my early twenties, went to uni, good job, eventually a great career.

My parents didn't live to see any of it....well only the teenage dickhead :(
 
Mine is that I didn't take redundancy when the team restructure was to take place. I allowed myself to be mugged off by attending a sham interview for my own job, that I'd sucessfully done for 6 years, to be told I was not 'appointable'. The position was never filled.

The person who knifed me in the back is a Blue and when he gave me the bad news in his office, there was a picture of Sergio looking down on us. I know for a fact that he sometimes comes on Bluemoon. Not sure why, but he wanted me out. If he'd had told me there was no future there, I would have dealt with it so much better than how it turned out. I despise this man more than anyone who ever lived.

This happened almost 2 years ago and it affected me deeply. Probably because of my age, but also that I feel like I went through a bereavement, for a career that lasted nearly 30 years, status and acheivement that was taken away from me.

I'm finally on the way back and started University in September. Life is hard at the moment financially with a part time job but I'm surrounded by good people and will get through it. Onwards and upwards.
 
Mike N said:
Mine is that I didn't take redundancy when the team restructure was to take place. I allowed myself to be mugged off by attending a sham interview for my own job, that I'd sucessfully done for 6 years, to be told I was not 'appointable'. The position was never filled.

The person who knifed me in the back is a Blue and when he gave me the bad news in his office, there was a picture of Sergio looking down on us. I know for a fact that he sometimes comes on Bluemoon. Not sure why, but he wanted me out. If he'd had told me there was no future there, I would have dealt with it so much better than how it turned out. I despise this man more than anyone who ever lived.

This happened almost 2 years ago and it affected me deeply. Probably because of my age, but also that I feel like I went through a bereavement, for a career that lasted nearly 30 years, status and acheivement that was taken away from me.

I'm finally on the way back and started University in September. Life is hard at the moment financially with a part time job but I'm surrounded by good people and will get through it. Onwards and upwards.
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What a fucking arsehole. Sorry to hear your plight mate.
 
Mike N said:
Mine is that I didn't take redundancy when the team restructure was to take place. I allowed myself to be mugged off by attending a sham interview for my own job, that I'd sucessfully done for 6 years, to be told I was not 'appointable'. The position was never filled.

The person who knifed me in the back is a Blue and when he gave me the bad news in his office, there was a picture of Sergio looking down on us. I know for a fact that he sometimes comes on Bluemoon. Not sure why, but he wanted me out. If he'd had told me there was no future there, I would have dealt with it so much better than how it turned out. I despise this man more than anyone who ever lived.

This happened almost 2 years ago and it affected me deeply. Probably because of my age, but also that I feel like I went through a bereavement, for a career that lasted nearly 30 years, status and acheivement that was taken away from me.

I'm finally on the way back and started University in September. Life is hard at the moment financially with a part time job but I'm surrounded by good people and will get through it. Onwards and upwards.
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That's terrible, you probably made him feel inadequate or insecure, usually the case in these things. The fact you've restarted probably confirms his worst fears about you.....adaptable, intelligent, never give up.

Onwards and upwards blue
 
Apart from all the people I wish I'd walloped with a baseball bat instead of smiling through their shite......... ?

Not going to to see the Stone Roses in Wales in early 1989. I later heard there'd been about seven people there. Not too long later they were playing to thousands.
 
Mike N said:
Mine is that I didn't take redundancy when the team restructure was to take place. I allowed myself to be mugged off by attending a sham interview for my own job, that I'd sucessfully done for 6 years, to be told I was not 'appointable'. The position was never filled.

The person who knifed me in the back is a Blue and when he gave me the bad news in his office, there was a picture of Sergio looking down on us. I know for a fact that he sometimes comes on Bluemoon. Not sure why, but he wanted me out. If he'd had told me there was no future there, I would have dealt with it so much better than how it turned out. I despise this man more than anyone who ever lived.

This happened almost 2 years ago and it affected me deeply. Probably because of my age, but also that I feel like I went through a bereavement, for a career that lasted nearly 30 years, status and acheivement that was taken away from me.

I'm finally on the way back and started University in September. Life is hard at the moment financially with a part time job but I'm surrounded by good people and will get through it. Onwards and upwards.
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I know it's difficult but you have to move on and put this fella back in his box where he belongs. Then you can properly move on with your life. Sounds like you are very much doing that. Good luck
 
Not popping home and seeing my Mum on the Monday after spending the weekend with the gf. Only to find out my Mum had killed herself that Monday morning through depression. Would it of made a difference I will never know.
 
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