kaz7
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Don't fret about it
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Boundaries between co-workers
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Depends on her really. Depends on her opinion of you. At work there are a few guys even ones much older than me who I can have a laugh and a frolic with and I know genuinely that it's nothing more than banter, then there are some guys who if they did the same I'd feel uncomfortable and question their motive.
So it all depends on your creep level.
I rarely speak to her unless it's work related, no banter or jokes, so I'd like to think my creep level to her is about zero.
Just see how she is tomorrow and make her know you were just being civil and not pervy, sure if she has known you a while she will understand you meant no harm.
Thanks guys.
I will try and gauge her reaction towards me when I say good morning to her tomorrow. I may apologise for my own peace of mind.
The blue phantom
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I rarely speak to her unless it's work related, no banter or jokes, so I'd like to think my creep level to her is about zero.
The last firm i worked at i remember the manager actually being suspended for doing just that.
I'd apoligise mate.
TheBlueDune
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But did you get a good look down her blouse?
You need to judge the mood and apologise if it seems the right thing to do - she may smile and say "anytime".
I worked with a young lady once who would stand behind me while I was sitting down and she would rest her tits on my shoulder.
She needed to rest them as (she said) they were size 32F.
And, no I don't have pictures, just memories.
You need to judge the mood and apologise if it seems the right thing to do - she may smile and say "anytime".
I worked with a young lady once who would stand behind me while I was sitting down and she would rest her tits on my shoulder.
She needed to rest them as (she said) they were size 32F.
And, no I don't have pictures, just memories.
bumbleblue
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I would get an apology in asap especially if it is bothering you. Hope all ok.
The last firm i worked at i remember the manager actually being suspended for doing just that.
I'd apoligise mate.
I think apologising is my safest bet. I really have nothing to lose by doing it, and it could help quite a lot if she did indeed feel uncomfortable.
franksinatra
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I think apologising is my safest bet. I really have nothing to lose by doing it, and it could help quite a lot if she did indeed feel uncomfortable.
I would just to break the ice. If you do not have any banter or jokes and it is just work related stuff you talk about it, touching her shoulders (and I presume you was stood behind her) is pretty odd. Its not like your mates and you lark about all the time.
I do not think you have done any harm though, so do not over analyse it but if she does feel uncomfortable a lighthearted (not overly serious) apology wouod reassure her.
Tuearts right boot
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No one on here is interested unless you shoved your hand up her skirt and shouted " Way Hey..." at the top of your voice. Then you might have a case of confessing your sins on BM, with pictures of course.
I would just to break the ice. If you do not have any banter or jokes and it is just work related stuff you talk about it, touching her shoulders (and I presume you was stood behind her) is pretty odd. Its not like your mates and you lark about all the time.
I do not think you have done any harm though, so do not over analyse it but if she does feel uncomfortable a lighthearted (not overly serious) apology wouod reassure her.
It was definitely an odd thing to do. The good thing is she is usually the first one in every morning, so if I get in 10 mins earlier, I might get the chance to clear this up before the day starts. If anything, It'll make me feel better.