Broken

Hey blue, sorry you've got it rough right now. I remember we were posting in the dementia thread a while back, you have my deepest sympathy.

But more than that, how about something real, you have my support. Mine and I imagine dozens of others on here. If you want to chat, blow off steam, rage at the world or none of that, we're here. I hope you see theses messages of support, no need to reply if you don't feel up to it, but just know plenty care.

Trust me, life isn't all bad. I know it seems it now, but you're probably feeling rock bottom. None of it is your fault, and there is still plenty to smile for, it just gets hidden under dark clouds. Do your mum proud, live for her, and when you can remember her and smile, even just a little, even through the tears, you know you're getting there.
 
I geniunely hope you haven't done anything drastic. If you have kids they are the ones that really need you the most.
 
Was always a long shot but just done a search for 'kippaxkid74' on twitter on the off chance she'd used the same handle on there. No luck but if anyone is on Instagram or any of the other social media sites it might be worth a search?
 
To the OP......your family love you. If you have lost someone then they loved you too.
They all want you to get through it and live on for them and for yourself. As do we on here.
There are many avenues of support. PLEASE look at the links others have sent you.
Trust me, you have so much to live for xx
 
No it's that my mum died 3 days after the parade and I have no one and my sister gets into my head and I want to die tonight today right now as it's destroyed me life's not worth doing no one heard me in ruining everything and my sister won't hear me and I'll ruin my sons life being here and I need my mum my mum my mum and I didn't want to type about it but clicked to post but then couldn't but then did that, see my head is broken.
There is no correct way to grieve, to each and everyone of us it will be unique. We all need our Mum's they are special to us, they understand us more than anyone, but take comfort from the fact that she has left a beautiful girl and special human being as her ultimate legacy.

It is often said time is a great healer and that as time passes the good memories will surface and outweigh the bad, it has with me and my Dad, he died a long time ago but I remember him more fondly and with more love every single day. Human beings have great capacity to cope with adversity and it is because we are sentient beings we feel the pain of loss so acutely but we all also feel the power of love even more acutely.

I am more than happy to talk to you if you wish, DM me and I will send you my mobile number, I can listen.

Take care of you. x
 
Was always a long shot but just done a search for 'kippaxkid74' on twitter on the off chance she'd used the same handle on there. No luck but if anyone is on Instagram or any of the other social media sites it might be worth a search?
I know her Twitter handle, but she hasn’t posted for a few days (her last post was 5 days ago about the sad passing of her mum).
 
@kippaxkid74

I’ve had a really shit year and could do with a complete stranger to talk to. We have City in common and stuff we both need to talk about.

Believe me, I’ve felt so low, so many times recently but I’ve begun to see there is so much to live for.

PM me and I’ll be more than willing to contact you and get talking.

Take care.
 

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