Came out...

Ammy

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My mate's (and I do mean my mate, not me!) husband 'came out' to her yesterday.
He claims he's always been attracted to men, but has never acted on it. But he'd like to discuss the possibility of an 'Open Marriage' sometime in the future
He wants to stay married to her and loves her deeply and their sex life is better than it has been for ages.

She's obviously devastated, but still loves him, they have been a couple for years and have two children. She has no desire to be with anyone else.

What should she do? Stay and trust that he won't experiment/ cheat on her?
Or leave?
 
Call it a day, it will eat away at her seeing him every day like that imo.

Edit:: good sex life, hmm well if she can handle such a relationship then go for it.

However it could easily get complicated.
 
Thought provocing for a Thursday night, I'm glad they've got a relationship strong enough to talk about this. If he's unfaithful be it with a man or a women, they'll have big problems, trust on her side will also be a problem. Hope they work it out.
 
Tell her to get in touch with the cellar personally, she will get a lot of good sound impartial advice ......honest
 

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