It's a battle of wills which I think we are both enjoying. She heads towards it if door is open, couple steps short she sits down. I say oi you I know where you're going and you're not allowed in there, she looks round takes the steps to door and sits down again. Then I close the door and the game ends until the next time. Regards sleeping yea she sleeps everywhere and anywhere but the bed although at night she does go to the blanket.Really kind of you to adopt her , cats like boxes with a blanket in and will sleep where they like and not where humans like ! She will be in your bedroom eventually so give in now lol