Cheating in a relationship

[Uncle Wally One Ball]

got to be some reason why she's hanging about with him and that's only reason i can think off

The children maybe

 

[Crooked_rain]

I personally couldn't go back to someone that did that because I think there's really no way you could fully trust somebody in that situation once they've done it once. is it worth spending your life and worrying about them doing it again or being paranoid about what they're up to when they're out of sight? Not for me. Maybe if you have children and want to keep your household somewhat together for their sake, then I can kind of understand why some might stay with their partner.


Another thing is I've never really understood cheating. I know some people may have an unhappy home life and find happiness elsewhere, so I won't judge everyone the same, but generally speaking I've never understood when lads and lasses I know start cheating when they have a decent relationship. Its not like they truly enjoy it, because they spend half the time worrying about being caught...

Why not just be single, bang whoever you please and have nobody to answer to and no worries about being caught. Surely that's more enjoyable if your desire is to be sleeping with more than one person.

But then again some people say you are only as faithful as your options and if Monica Bellucci was to let me pipe her, maybe my morals would go out the window, even if she's old enough to be my mother.

 

[kaz7]

got to be some reason why she's hanging about with him and that's only reason i can think off

She is a strict catholic who doesnt agree with divorce , wouldnt surprise me if they were living seperately but in the same mansion

 

[Alan ogleys ball bag]

I was persuaded to give the last mr k a sort of second chance after he had a year long affair with a friend / neighbour , tbf i was disabled by then and it was really difficult on my own

It was a year when i found out , god knows how much longer it would have gone on for , he swore blind it was over so i said lets go to councilling for a while and he acted his way through it as after that i had a tip of from another neighbour that he was seen going into her flat again and he admitted it had never stopped

I started the divorce but he made me wait for two yrs to make it final, my solicitor rinsed him dry so it was sort of worth the wait , i have no idea why he was clinging onto me like that , just a **** i guess

So no , never again , one strike and they would be fucked off

correct I went through it 30 years ago married a snake with tits

 

[johnnytapia]

She is a strict catholic who doesnt agree with divorce , wouldnt surprise me if they were living seperately but in the same mansion

She could have it annulled. Divorce would then be permissible.

 

[Mr Kobayashi]

I was persuaded to give the last mr k a sort of second chance after he had a year long affair with a friend / neighbour , tbf i was disabled by then and it was really difficult on my own

It was a year when i found out , god knows how much longer it would have gone on for , he swore blind it was over so i said lets go to councilling for a while and he acted his way through it as after that i had a tip of from another neighbour that he was seen going into her flat again and he admitted it had never stopped

I started the divorce but he made me wait for two yrs to make it final, my solicitor rinsed him dry so it was sort of worth the wait , i have no idea why he was clinging onto me like that , just a **** i guess

So no , never again , one strike and they would be fucked off

Did you want the Parks and Recreation department to trim your bush? :)

 

[jimharri]

got to be some reason why she's hanging about with him and that's only reason i can think off

His chiseled good looks and ripped torso?

 

[Bigga]

some people are prepared to bite the bullet, rather than face life alone, possibly homeless, with children to consider, financial realities over-ride the feelings of being made to look stupid, the anger. Knowing the future will be utterly different to what seemed "normal" becomes overwhelming, with more problems emerging on a daily basis. If going back just means sharing the same address still, then for some there is no alternative, until the kids future's are stable. Some are able to "go back to Mums", kids and all, even move to a different part of the country. Truly awful situation, life-changing with little hope of it being for the better. I imagine most of us share the same as Mrs BB's reaction, that the relationship is over. It's the aftermath where the consequences get bloody.

Just over 20 years back I was seeing a married bird for a couple of years, who told me all about her life, being with a guy she felt was boring, didn't excite her in any way, but she had been with him so long she was stuck.

She, literally, was terrified that if she left she'd have nowhere to go and her security was that important to her.

After I had a mouthful of her massive norks, one last time, I told her I had started seeing someone else.

Pretty sure she went on to see other people after, but it's not all men that do these things.

Boredom is a HUGE factor when it comes to infidelity.

 

[snorky]

Are my posts about my cheating ex not being seen for several years being deleted because they break some coc, or just because they are in bad taste?

 

[Phil1]

Are my posts about my cheating ex not being seen for several years being deleted because they break some coc, or just because they are in bad taste?

I’ve never read a post of yours not in bad taste so can’t be that.. :-)