CSA

[dazdon]

There are help groups that can advise, but as already stated, you're pi**ing against the wind against them.
They're like the scumbags 'they'll do what they want'
I won a tribunal against them and was told everything would be sorted. 2 weeks later they put a detachment on my earnings for a larger amount than I'd just had reduced.
Seriously get advice from somewhere.

I'm actually gobsmacked you won a tribunal against them mate, last time a friend went to court he didn't even get the chance to state his case or even speak, the CSA read THEIR bit, the court found in favour of them and he was dismissed, when he mentioned he hadn't had his chance to state his case, they just repeated "we find in favour of the CSA", eventually he was warned if he persisted in asking for a chance to state his case, he would be physically removed from the court, so even the courts favour them hugely.

I had 4 court hearings and in the end they had to concede even though I didn't have the right to speak in court...the paperwork was enough to convince the court that the lawyer and the CSA official were absolutely mad.

The lawyer tried to apologise outside the court so I called him a **** and told him to fuck off.

My children are all older now and I see them all the time (As I did then) these episodes have substantially damaged the relationships between mother and children and strengthened the relationship I have with my children...fathers/mothers who have suffered parental alienation tactics and abuse of power by authorities should ALWAYS fight for a window of time to tell their children that they love them, even if it means standing outside the school or via SKYPE.

Even after the nonsense my children and myself had to suffer with I still give my children the advice that they only have one mother and you don't have to like her but the time is past for blame.

Only last month the police had to move the deranged idiot from outside my house because she wanted to see one of her adult children that doesn't want anything to do with her and she wouldn't listen...she was actually shouting at the house. It isn't a mental health issue it's a control issue.

She has reaped what she sowed and I did warn her of this before-during the decade of sustained hatred aimed at me.

Any parent whatever sex you are should with every fibre of your being and whatever the provocation remember that it's your children that need to know you care...and don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks.