The perfect fumble said:
Calling me a fucking idiot and refusing to debate the point, sums you up nicely.
If I'm such a fucking idiot then refute what I say, if you don't, or won't, or can't then that's on you.
To be honest mate, you're in the wrong here.
The way arguments are supposed to work are that somebody makes a claim that is relevant to the discussion, such as "apples are green". The other person if they don't accept that claim at face value then challenges the original person to provide a source, essentially to show where you learned this specific information. Then you provide a source and the person you're arguing against will then read it and either accept it as true or point out that the source says that "
some apples are green" rather than "apples are green".
You strike that down as a point that you made a mistake on then think about if and how it reshapes your argument. Then continue to discussion.
What you have done is say "apples are green" and then when challenged to provide the source where you have learnt that, stated that it's actually somebody else's job to show that apples AREN'T green.
The problem with this is that research and studies aren't done in a negative slant; that is, you don't do research to determine if something is not true but instead do it to show that something is true. You might come to the conclusion that your hypothesis isn't true at the end of it, but the point is to test the validity of something. You can't test the validity of a negative claim, only a positive one.
For example, you cannot prove that I am not a shape-shifting alien called BeedleZog. Even if you had genetic tests that showed 100% match as human it doesn't discount the possibility that my alien race is actually genetically identical to humans or a bunch of other factors. You CAN however prove that I am 100% human genetically by doing the same test. Proving a negative is impossible which is why theistic arguments always make this mistake.
When you said "
Executive pay has ballooned, with little or no connection to performance!", you made a positive claim that something DID happen rather than something DIDN'T. This is something that can be challenged fairly in any argument and the other poster pulled you up on it. At this point you should have defined your claim more specifically then provided the source that told you this, whether it be a newspaper or a research paper then gone from there. Instead you asked others to show how it is wrong which cannot be done as you're asking for evidence of a negative claim.
Later you conceded that there's probably no evidence either way which brings into question how you got this information in the first place.
My point is that you're asking him to refute something but you haven't actually backed up a sourced claim that he can then refute. You cannot refute unsourced positive claims because common languages lacks the specificity to check the information. In your example, you didn't give any time scales nor did you define what performance means so there isn't enough information to actually see what argument you are making. When you provide a source, one of the things that happens is that it is usually peer reviewed in some way and contains all of the missing information about those types of things that you didn't really mention, so he wouldn't really try to refute you because you haven't done any independent research into the area but instead he would try to refute the study that you provide.
If you don't provide a study or article or book or whatever then there is nothing for anybody to refute. That's why he's getting frustrated, you've asked him to show where something you have said is wrong but you haven't actually said anything that is specific enough to be able to be wrong. In essence the statement is not right or wrong because it doesn't make a testable claim. In scientific circles they say that these type of claims are "not even wrong", as in they have yet to reach the level to be considered right or wrong.
Sort of like saying 4 multiplied by 5 equals The Bolivian National Coastguard