Fell completely off the wagon.

[Patientman63]

You do know where to start.

The drinking stops. It stops now. There will be only one outcome if you cannot break the pull of the alcohol.

Fight that, find it in yourself to break the craving. Go to AA, go to counselling, go to church, go to fucking Ikea if it helps you break it, but break it you must or you are fucked.

You know this.

It is not easy, fuck do I know this. I am not being dramatic, your life and everyone in it depends on it.

Your words indicate you have been on the wagon, and if so you know what you need to do. Find it in you to do it again.

Good luck blue.

 

[Bill]

Go and see your doctor. Now.

 

[Ducado]

You do know where to start.

The drinking stops. It stops now. There will be only one outcome if you cannot break the pull of the alcohol.

Fight that, find it in yourself to break the craving. Go to AA, go to counselling, go to church, go to fucking Ikea if it helps you break it, but break it you must or you are fucked.

You know this.

It is not easy, fuck do I know this. I am not being dramatic, your life and everyone in it depends on it.

Your words indicate you have been on the wagon, and if so you know what you need to do. Find it in you to do it again.

Good luck blue.

Good advice remember its the first drink that does the damage, you can go two ways, you can carry on drinking and lose the lot or you can get sober and lead a happy and productive life, sure it's hard but you can't drink just as some people can't eat certain foods. Also alcohol is a depressant a fact many people forget

As for your wife it will take a while alcoholics when they are drinking are not exactly trustworthy get sober show her you are making an effort, but ultimately it's a consequence that you will have face up to

I wish you all the best

 

[nelsons willie]

The first person you have to listen to is yourself. It took me 38 years to realise this. If you want to quit you will.

 

[drthingy]

id back de niro s point go and see your doctor they can help.
horrid illness that most folks dont understand.
it wont feel like it now but you can be back in control. good luck brother!

 

[rushts]

Go and see your doctor. Now.

Without doubt, go and do this now, before you speak to the fiance.

When you do speak to the missus you will at least be able to back up your words with your positive actions.

 

[BimboBob]

No more ale. You have a kid. Start acting like an adult and think about others for once...

I've lost it all...boo fucking hoo...I'm so drunk...boo hoo...

COME ON MATE! Stop feeling sorry for yourself, put the ale down and sort it out.

A trip to the doctors for help and guidance would be a start. You also need to work out why.

Good luck. Asking for help is a good start. Now SORT YOURSELF OUT!

 

[nelsons willie]

No more ale. You have a kid. Start acting like an adult and think about others for once...

I've lost it all...boo fucking hoo...I'm so drunk...boo hoo...

COME ON MATE! Stop feeling sorry for yourself, put the ale down and sort it out.

A trip to the doctors for help and guidance would be a start. You also need to work out why.

Good luck. Asking for help is a good start. Now SORT YOURSELF OUT!

Harsh but very true bobby.

 

[Anonymous]

You know exactly where to start.
Houses and fiances come and go but your kid is your kid.
Don't be daft.

That's just it, she won't let me see her, and has told me I won't be seeing her again.

If it really came down to it , i doubt if she can (legally) stop you seeing her , PROVIDING you can prove that you've got your act together ....... and that will almost certainly include cutting out the drinking.

 

[salford blue 62]

I KNOW HARD IT IS MATE,FUCK ME DO I,AND I KNOW YOU DONT WANT TO HEAR SOME OF THE THINGS THAT PEOPLE HAVE REPLIED TO YOU WITH,BUT ONLY YOU CAN SORT IT,JUST THINK ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER AND THE FUTURE OF MISSING THE LITTLE THINGS AS SHE IS GROWING UP,AS I HAVE,
I REALLY WISH YOU ALL THE BEST MATE,GOOD LUCK !