Help needed having THAT conversation with a female friend

[Stuart]

get her round to your place . google soundcloud and enter marshall jefferson live @ passage . turn the volume , drop an E in her large glass of JD n coke with ice . give it about half an hour , job's a good-un . ( don't forget the talc ) lol

 

[blue John]

LOL at some of the replies on here. You really didn't think this through did you? ;)

Anyway, obviously I can't give you the exact words, but just be honest with her and try not to put it off, because the longer you leave it the less likely you are to ever tell her, and the more chance she could meet someone else.

The most important thing is, after you've told her, be understanding. Make sure she knows that if she doesn't want anything to happen, that you're okay with that (even if you're not) and you still want to be friends. There's nothing worse than a clingy lad who know's you have no interest in him.

Good luck!

Well done
great reply

 

[markbmcfc]

LOL at some of the replies on here. You really didn't think this through did you? ;)

Anyway, obviously I can't give you the exact words, but just be honest with her and try not to put it off, because the longer you leave it the less likely you are to ever tell her, and the more chance she could meet someone else.

The most important thing is, after you've told her, be understanding. Make sure she knows that if she doesn't want anything to happen, that you're okay with that (even if you're not) and you still want to be friends. There's nothing worse than a clingy lad who know's you have no interest in him.

Good luck!

Oooops...this is what i should have said lol.

I wouldnt have been so 'lude' if i knew young lady's were reading!

 

[Bluemoon115]

Thatnks folks, some brilliant replies on here (and some serious ones, cheers for that one Amy) ;-P

Were going for a drink on Thursday, so I'm going to go for it then, and whatever happens, happens, if she says no at least I'll have my answer, and won't be wondering what if.

So, I guess now I just wait until Thursday (We'll have just signed Tevez so I'll be in a confident mood then anyway ;-P)

 

[markbmcfc]

Thatnks folks, some brilliant replies on here (and some serious ones, cheers for that one Amy) ;-P

Were going for a drink on Thursday, so I'm going to go for it then, and whatever happens, happens, if she says no at least I'll have my answer, and won't be wondering what if.

So, I guess now I just wait until Thursday (We'll have just signed Tevez so I'll be in a confident mood then anyway ;-P)

In seriousness, best of luck mate, hope it goes well.

 

[Joycee Banercheck]

Just say whats on your mind. If you're honest from the start then she'll apreciate that at least. Make sure she knows that you value her as a friend above anything else and hopefully she's been waiting for you to grow a pair and say something anyway. Good luck, blue.

 

[SambaBoys]

Thatnks folks, some brilliant replies on here (and some serious ones, cheers for that one Amy) ;-P

Were going for a drink on Thursday, so I'm going to go for it then, and whatever happens, happens, if she says no at least I'll have my answer, and won't be wondering what if.

So, I guess now I just wait until Thursday (We'll have just signed Tevez so I'll be in a confident mood then anyway ;-P)

Let us all know how it goes!!!!!!!!!

 

[blue John]

Best of luck mate

 

[BimboBob]

Good luck mate.


Oh...do you have any photos of her?Just for research purposes obviously.

 

[der-bomber]

Posted this on the rong fred earlier, meant to post it on here, its a sure-fire winner, but obviously the technique needs to be practiced for best results and maximum success rate.

lf the OP finds that he gets tongue-tied when talking to the sexzy laydeez, then maybe he could try the sign language approach...

Simply use the forefinger and thumb of the left hand to make a circle, then , using the right index finger ,straightened in a pointing motion, jab it in and out of aforementioned circle, whilst smiling and nodding.

Eye contact during this process is essential and will have her swooning in no time.

Hope this helps.