Prestwich_Blue
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Knowing the OP, if she's with him then she obviously can't be that fussy!Pigeonho said:
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Lavinda Past
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Are we saying that the girl shouldn't have a chance at settling down because she slept with a lot of blokes? For all we know, she may have been a prostitute in the past, through genuine need - Why shouldn't she be able to settle down with one guy if she'd turned her life around a few years later?
Would it have been a problem if she'd been a junkie in the past? If she was clean / free of infection etc, why would it be an issue for the future?
What if she'd been bi-sexual and had slept with ten blokes and 190 women? Would that still be an issue?
We've all got a past. Some will be more tarnished than others... Whatever any of us have done, it's in the past. That's why it's called the past... It's gone - All that matters is the present and the future.
Insecurity is a terrible thing. It may well be that she had found true happiness with the OP and was simply being honest with him rather than hiding her past. If she'd said she'd (only) slept with ten blokes, would it have made her a different person? No. Would the OP still be with her? Probably yes.
The past is the past. Every day offers a new start for everybody. The OP may well have been her new start.
I hope she doesn't read any of this thread - The last thing this girl needed was someone getting cheap laughs at her expense because he wasn't man enough to try to make a go of their relationship.
On the information provided, I reckon the Op would probably still be with the lass if she'd said (say) five or ten blokes, and there'd be a chance of the relationship going forward positively. What matters is who the person is now.... Not who they were in the past.
The lass must have something about her for the OP to go out with her and refer to her as his missus. I reckon he'll probably look back on this in the future and realise that he probably lost out.
I hope she finds happiness with someone more secure.
Would it have been a problem if she'd been a junkie in the past? If she was clean / free of infection etc, why would it be an issue for the future?
What if she'd been bi-sexual and had slept with ten blokes and 190 women? Would that still be an issue?
We've all got a past. Some will be more tarnished than others... Whatever any of us have done, it's in the past. That's why it's called the past... It's gone - All that matters is the present and the future.
Insecurity is a terrible thing. It may well be that she had found true happiness with the OP and was simply being honest with him rather than hiding her past. If she'd said she'd (only) slept with ten blokes, would it have made her a different person? No. Would the OP still be with her? Probably yes.
The past is the past. Every day offers a new start for everybody. The OP may well have been her new start.
I hope she doesn't read any of this thread - The last thing this girl needed was someone getting cheap laughs at her expense because he wasn't man enough to try to make a go of their relationship.
On the information provided, I reckon the Op would probably still be with the lass if she'd said (say) five or ten blokes, and there'd be a chance of the relationship going forward positively. What matters is who the person is now.... Not who they were in the past.
The lass must have something about her for the OP to go out with her and refer to her as his missus. I reckon he'll probably look back on this in the future and realise that he probably lost out.
I hope she finds happiness with someone more secure.
Prestwich_Blue
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She's breathing...?Lavinda Past said:The lass must have something about her for the OP to go out with her...
Thaksinssoldier
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We knew a girl who used to go the pub 6 nights a week. We worked out conservatively that she left with a different bloke 3 nights out of that week. She'd been drinking there 11 years. So by our conservative maths she'd shagged 1716 blokes and rising in the time some of us have known her.
Classy.
Classy.
mcmanus
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Thaksinssoldier said:We knew a girl who used to go the pub 6 nights a week. We worked out conservatively that she left with a different bloke 3 nights out of that week. She'd been drinking there 11 years. So by our conservative maths she'd shagged 1716 blokes and rising in the time some of us have known her.
Classy.
Are you on about the same girl as the OP.
Thaksinssoldier
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mcmanus said:Thaksinssoldier said:We knew a girl who used to go the pub 6 nights a week. We worked out conservatively that she left with a different bloke 3 nights out of that week. She'd been drinking there 11 years. So by our conservative maths she'd shagged 1716 blokes and rising in the time some of us have known her.
Classy.
Are you on about the same girl as the OP.
nope.there's plenty of them out there :-)
Lavinda Past
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Thaksinssoldier said:We knew a girl who used to go the pub 6 nights a week. We worked out conservatively that she left with a different bloke 3 nights out of that week. She'd been drinking there 11 years. So by our conservative maths she'd shagged 1716 blokes and rising in the time some of us have known her.
Classy.
Firstly.... Are you a Tory?
Secondly.... 1716 different blokes in the same pub? Add all the blokes she didn't leave with, plus female customers...
No pub has that many customers.
Are you sure it wasn't a brothel?
Rocket-footed kolarov
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Lavinda Past said:Thaksinssoldier said:We knew a girl who used to go the pub 6 nights a week. We worked out conservatively that she left with a different bloke 3 nights out of that week. She'd been drinking there 11 years. So by our conservative maths she'd shagged 1716 blokes and rising in the time some of us have known her.
Classy.
Firstly.... Are you a Tory?
Secondly.... 1716 different blokes in the same pub? Add all the blokes she didn't leave with, plus female customers...
No pub has that many customers.
Are you sure it wasn't a brothel?
The maths is based on flawed logic. It is a bit like the difference between the number of US presidents and the number of men who have been president :)
If it was across 11 years then it could well have done... people move, might depend on where the pub is etc. But yes unlikely. It is more likely she was known as the local bike, and some men had gone home with her more than once, maybe a few perhaps many times. And that is assuming that she has the same habits over the course of 11 years and didn't have periods of abstaining or was in a relationship (in which she was faihful) for periods in those 11 years. it is a bit disrespectful putting it like you did, but then I suppose she obviously didn't have much respect for herself anyway, so oh well.
mcmanus
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Rocket-footed kolarov said:Lavinda Past said:Thaksinssoldier said:We knew a girl who used to go the pub 6 nights a week. We worked out conservatively that she left with a different bloke 3 nights out of that week. She'd been drinking there 11 years. So by our conservative maths she'd shagged 1716 blokes and rising in the time some of us have known her.
Classy.
Firstly.... Are you a Tory?
Secondly.... 1716 different blokes in the same pub? Add all the blokes she didn't leave with, plus female customers...
No pub has that many customers.
Are you sure it wasn't a brothel?
The maths is based on flawed logic. It is a bit like the difference between the number of US presidents and the number of men who have been president :)
If it was across 11 years then it could well have done... people move, might depend on where the pub is etc. But yes unlikely. It is more likely she was known as the local bike, and some men had gone home with her more than once, maybe a few perhaps many times. And that is assuming that she has the same habits over the course of 11 years and didn't have periods of abstaining or was in a relationship (in which she was faihful) for periods in those 11 years. it is a bit disrespectful putting it like you did, but then I suppose she obviously didn't have much for herself anyway, so oh well.
With that maths maybe about 200 then?