whp.blue
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Delete the number :get her out of your system: bone her sister
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How to get over a girl I love/loved?
- Thread starter Malty
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Delete the number :get her out of your system: bone her sister
kaz7
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He never ever tells us the whole storyOutrageous. So Malty has to wait til this girl pulls the right strings?
dronefromsector7G
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No parody thread yet?
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This place..
RightTurnClyde
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As harsh as this may sound, if she is saying that she's going out with mates and defining herself as "Kinda single" that probably means she is placing herself on the market and has her eyes on fucking somebody else. You're her back up plan at the moment so she will keep you dangling. Move on. Don't become her best friend-ex or any of that modern shite. Delete her number and move on. Keep yourself wrapped up in a project/fitness program etc and stay busy. In a few weeks time when she texts/calls you to say how much she misses you tell her you're going out with mates and that you're busy being kinda single.
Metalartin
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There's a lot the inevitable "love is all bollocks, grow up" talk coming from blokes who sound like their hearts have been broken beyond repair.
The thing is she could be being truthful and just be off out with her mates and busy tonight, does miss him like she says so if that's the case you don't want to overdo things in a rush or things can go awkward very quickly for both of you. On the other hand if she is trying to be "nice"(which lets be honest is not wanting to do the right thing for fear of feeling bad) and telling him basically all the wrong things, it's not him that needs to grow up or grow some... really annoys me when people do the "take the hint" thing when in actual fact they were so cowardly that they didn't give any real "hints"(if you're the only person in the world that can decipher it then it's not a hint), which usually results in things coming to a head and making the person on the receiving end feel like the biggest dick on top of the bad news/disappointment.
You could delete if you feel your will power is waning she can always contact you if you are wrong and you will know who it is straight away even by text most probably, if they ask why you didn't call you can just say it felt like she wanted you to give her some space so you did.
It does sound like she doesn't feel the same way as you do though so you might want to think what's best for yourself before your feelings deepen any more. I could be wrong but "kinda single" does sound like she is seeing someone else but it's just for sex. You could remove feelings from it and keep it as friends with benefits or maybe watch some kinky cuckold movies and try and get into that way. Probably not what you wanted to hear this last paragraph I know.
The thing is she could be being truthful and just be off out with her mates and busy tonight, does miss him like she says so if that's the case you don't want to overdo things in a rush or things can go awkward very quickly for both of you. On the other hand if she is trying to be "nice"(which lets be honest is not wanting to do the right thing for fear of feeling bad) and telling him basically all the wrong things, it's not him that needs to grow up or grow some... really annoys me when people do the "take the hint" thing when in actual fact they were so cowardly that they didn't give any real "hints"(if you're the only person in the world that can decipher it then it's not a hint), which usually results in things coming to a head and making the person on the receiving end feel like the biggest dick on top of the bad news/disappointment.
You could delete if you feel your will power is waning she can always contact you if you are wrong and you will know who it is straight away even by text most probably, if they ask why you didn't call you can just say it felt like she wanted you to give her some space so you did.
It does sound like she doesn't feel the same way as you do though so you might want to think what's best for yourself before your feelings deepen any more. I could be wrong but "kinda single" does sound like she is seeing someone else but it's just for sex. You could remove feelings from it and keep it as friends with benefits or maybe watch some kinky cuckold movies and try and get into that way. Probably not what you wanted to hear this last paragraph I know.
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As harsh as this may sound, if she is saying that she's going out with mates and defining herself as "Kinda single" that probably means she is placing herself on the market and has her eyes on fucking somebody else. You're her back up plan at the moment so she will keep you dangling. Move on. Don't become her best friend-ex or any of that modern shite. Delete her number and move on. Keep yourself wrapped up in a project/fitness program etc and stay busy. In a few weeks time when she texts/calls you to say how much she misses you tell her you're going out with mates and that you're busy being kinda single.
Do I message her before deleting her number to tell her why I've deleted it and see if she changes then?
If you want to come across as needy then crack on and do that.Do I message her before deleting her number to tell her why I've deleted it and see if she changes then?
Mad Eyed Screamer
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Or a reminder of the rules for threads like this....No parody thread yet?
This place..