How to get over a girl I love/loved?

[Citizen in Pakistan]

In my experience the quicker you replace the old one with the new one the better you feel:-)

 

[jimharri]

Kaz looks like Jamie Lee Curtis too. Although we await proof.

That scene in Trading Places springs to mind, readily;
"By the way; food and rent aren't the only things around here that cost money".



"Nurse; my betablockers. QUICKLY!"

 

[slicky202]

Tinder pal! I'm noe starting a relationship with a sexy little gymnast thanks to the app
Once lost my head over a girl and hit the booze/drugsbto numb my feelings, and now I'm happy and she's lost her business and is back working behind the bar where we met while pregnant. I know she's miserable and I'm too happy to even be bothered to take thebpuss out of her

 

[RandomJ]

Completely cut them out of your life. Forget all that staying friends bollocks, if you want that can come much later after you're over them. Delete number, delete off Facebook, unfollow any mutual friends on Facebook who may tag her in a pic that will show on your timeline, delete off Whatsapp etc. etc.. Concentrate on you, go out with mates etc. Few months you'll be golden. But I don't advise trying to rush into another relationship with another girl while you're still hung up on the last one. That will only end badly.

 

[slicky202]

Do you have any mates op? And in future relationships if she pisses you off go straight down the pub. She will hate the thought of you enjoying yourself without her and will wind her neck in

 

[TFC]

Realize there's another 3.5 billion of them out there and that life is too fucking short for unrequited love.

 

[Yaya_Tony]

I rang her a few hours a go we talked got on and said we missed each other and talked about me going around to see her (but she said she might be going out with her mates) and that she's 'kinda single' whatever that means then she said she'll ring me back.. She hasn't rang so far


That's why I'm hurting so badly now as I feel like I've basically lost my dignity and got duped by this girl.. Why doesn't she just tell me it's over and then I can move on?

Of course she could just be busy she has a kid but maybe she doesn't want to say it's over!? She's trying to be nice??

This isn't the first time I get the impression I'm doing all the chasing..

I feel like shit.. What should I do now? Delete her number and if she rings she rings if she doesn't I won't be able to contact her anymore!? Or do I keep calling her?

Help... Don't want to come across as too desperate and ruin our good memories together.,

"I ain't doing this anymore, love"

Be friends later if you can and want to but your raw man, you've obviously been hurt by this girl and know for a fact you'd feel terrible knowing she was doing whatever it is she's doing. So try not to think of it. You've not got kids, that's the only reason I have one of my exes on the phonebook. It flares up but if it wasn't for my girls I'd never talk to her again. Just cut her out, do your own thing and see what happens. Whatever you do, don't pine after her, there is nothing more pathetic. Go get laid, it's easy now. No guilt plus tinder, have fun!

 

[Yaya_Tony]

Since stalker territory on WhatsApp has already been broached, here's something I'm not at all proud of but fuck it, it happened. I was a bit selfish towards the end of this relationship, and didn't behave exactly like I should. We both drank unhealthy amounts, in the same house, seperately. She discovered new "friends" on twatter, I was pulling endurance races on gran turismo or blowing stuff up on gta. We split (I left, she kept the house we built and I paid for) but knowing her activity on twitter, made a game of it one day and ran a fake account of some old feminist for a few weeks. She bought it, told me a few things them I had the reveal. "knew all along " yeah right, I thought it was a good idea one night and after being responded to, carried it on. She ended up fucking Mrcanada, this guy flew over, and a fuck was not given.

It's just a girl. I did what I did for a personal laugh, not proud as said, but do I care about what's app? Hell no. Move on man. Half the world has a vagina, surely you can get one more wet, it's only sex. Any monkey can do it. Thinking about an ex (wind up thread or not) is the road to ruin, do your own thing and enjoy it! The year following my split with the kids mum was the most sexually active since being a teenager, might well have been the same for her. We were together ten years. Your length of service hasn't been specified. Care not a jot. No ties, financial or family, fuck her off and fuck someone else. You'll be happier.

 

[basokla]

Listen to The Smiths non stop for the rest of your life.... works for me...

As is usually the case with threads like this, the best advice can be found on the first page.

 

[Yaya_Tony]

As is usually the case with threads like this, the best advice can be found on the first page.

Meh, that's his answer to anything.