BigBluey
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Put your nob in a tank full of piranhas fitted with gum shields. You'll forget all about her in seconds!!
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How to get over a girl I love/loved?
- Thread starter Malty
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AustinBlue
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Delete the number. Delete the photos. Make room for someone who is excited just to be with you.
I know deleting her number is the answer but do I send her one final text to tell her I'm going to delete her number for my sanity to protect myself or don't bother?? Just incase she genuinely thinks i will keep texting and if she wants a future with us she has to act now...
Don't you bloody dare text her ! You might not realise it but you sound desperate and in this situation you are just going to get hurt even more. Love can sometimes be an obsession and you are craving what you cannot have. You are basically addicted ! You need to wean yourself off her and trust me it's the same as nicotine or booze. Over time you need it less and less and will be cured.
Take this one day at a time. Watch some films, go out with friends and keep yourself occupied. You don't need her and she's not thinking about you at all so delete her number. Before you know it you will have gone a day without thinking of her, then a week, then a month.
You are doing this to yourself and you need to claw back your self respect. Only you can help yourself.
andyhinch
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Shouldn't he ask for her sisters number before deleting ?Don't you bloody dare text her ! You might not realise it but you sound desperate and in this situation you are just going to get hurt even more. Love can sometimes be an obsession and you are craving what you cannot have. You are basically addicted ! You need to wean yourself off her and trust me it's the same as nicotine or booze. Over time you need it less and less and will be cured.
Take this one day at a time. Watch some films, go out with friends and keep yourself occupied. You don't need her and she's not thinking about you at all so delete her number. Before you know it you will have gone a day without thinking of her, then a week, then a month.
You are doing this to yourself and you need to claw back your self respect. Only you can help yourself.
In this case I'd say no, it's a desperate move to get her attention. He needs to completely cut off contact. In the not too distant future he will see her and think "meh, what the fuck was I arsed about"Shouldn't he ask for her sisters number before deleting ?
dronefromsector7G
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Woosh
andyhinch
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The hardest step is admitting to yourself it's over, hard to move on until you've done that, probably because you know you'll never go back.In this case I'd say no, it's a desperate move to get her attention. He needs to completely cut off contact. In the not too distant future he will see her and think "meh, what the fuck was I arsed about"
bluemoon32
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Never be with anyone who doesn't put in at least the same amount of energy into your relationship as you do.
Delete her number, pictures, facebook etc and things will get easier, DO NOT beg or keep texting as that'll just make you feel worthless and you'll end up settling for less than you're worth.
Delete her number, pictures, facebook etc and things will get easier, DO NOT beg or keep texting as that'll just make you feel worthless and you'll end up settling for less than you're worth.
BimboBob
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Sound advice from the Canadian.I got to page two and gave up. If nobody else has suggested it yet, I would say, go out and get your nails done. Possibly a pedicure and put some rollers in.
Then post a pic of your tits on here.
Barcon
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Sound advice from the Canadian.
Well, you're not a quitter. I'll give you that. : )