I think it's over *UPDATE* It's not over.

[MCFC BOB]

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well, i don't think it's over yet. by monday, it could be. just gotta see how this weekend goes really.

i've actually got no idea how to face her. what do you say when your girlfriend says that? i don't know where i'm going to sleep tonight. how bad is that? she could turf me out of her house if she doesn't want to be together anymore. i'd have to come home early, or stay in a hotel. does she honestly think i've got that kind of money?

what's annoyed me most is that she's left it just before we meet. she told me last night, and now she's saying how "awkward" it will be when we meet today. well whose fault is that? i thought we were fine, and that she was just having a bad week. she says her life is tragic and that only one person will understand her. and then she tries to tell me that my life would be better without her "dragging me down." she thinks she's ruining my life.

she sounds like a very mixed up person and she needs a lot of support. but i don't understand how she thinks she'll get support when she is bent on the fact that only one person understands her situation (and in case anyone is wondering, that person ain't me). but what does she expect to achieve in breaking up with me? like... what? i don't understand. she says she needs support and yet she's going to cut off her main source of it by breaking up with me.

she makes no sense. honestly, i've been having thoughts on whether to break up because i was tired of doing one thing, being told to do another, then being told to go back to what i was doing before. i don't actually know whether i can deal with her anymore. this is just causing me more shit and i don't need it from her when i know she doesn't want to give shit to me. she says that she doesn't want "me and [her] to end" and yet she's attempting to break us up, even though none of us want to leave each other.

also, there's been a fucking fire at piccadilly this morning, so i have to pick up my train from oxford road, which will be difficult enough as it is because i don't know how to get there by walking.

reading what i just put, all over again, she seems like a mixed up person who needs support.

fucking girls.

 

[shadygiz]

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dYC5E4perb8[/youtube]

 

[MCFC BOB]

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i think it's a bit soon to be making jokes, lee. but thanks for your fucking hilarious input.

Fucking hell Bob. What did you expect posting on here. You're what - 16 and have been together 2 years so you started at 14. Did you really expect to grow old together?

As painful as it is now we have all been through it and you should look upon it as a learning process. There will be lots more women and probably better ones than this. It's no comfort now but life has a way of one door closing and another opening.

i'm sorry for snapping at lee, but the joke was made a bit too soon for me.

honestly, i thought we could actually build on something. i don't know whether we'd grow old together or anything like that, but last week, i couldn't see us breaking up. i don't actually understand. she just sort of sprung this on me last night.

i'm going to get a better picture of what exactly is going on because being "different people" is not a legitimate reason to break up. it's a shame i fell for the most stubborn person in the universe.

do you know what... fuck it. i'm giving it a month or two to see if things pick up and if it doesn't, i'm kicking her out of my life with every part of my body. i deserve better than this. not better than her, but better than this current situation we find ourselves in.

she's doing my head in more than ever on this. we have fights like every other couple in the world. but this thing going on now is ridiculous. i have to catch a train in four hours to see her. in seven hours, we'll be together. i don't understand what's going on. so far, her reasons for breaking up with me are:

- i'm bringing you down
- i always ruin everything
- we are totally different people (when we're not)
- only one person understands me
- you'd be happy without me
- i'm just that spare part to your day; you don't need me

what kind of reasons are those? there's something underlying here and i need to find out what it is.

either that, or she's trying to get me to have rough make-up sex.

 

[gaudinho's stolen car]

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If she's saying all this just before you go to see her, it might be best if you don't go. Give her a couple of weeks and see how she feels.

Who is this mysterious confidante that understands her better than you?

 

[MCFC BOB]

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If she's saying all this just before you go to see her, it might be best if you don't go. Give her a couple of weeks and see how she feels.

Who is this mysterious confidante that understands her better than you?

honestly, i feel like i should go just because i paid £33 for a ticket.

her cousin and long time best friend - a girl. you know, someone else whose hormones sky rocket and crash at least thirty times in a day.

 

[shadygiz]

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If she's saying all this just before you go to see her, it might be best if you don't go. Give her a couple of weeks and see how she feels.

Who is this mysterious confidante that understands her better than you?

arr, you mean ten inch tony ;)

 

[MCFC BOB]

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If she's saying all this just before you go to see her, it might be best if you don't go. Give her a couple of weeks and see how she feels.

Who is this mysterious confidante that understands her better than you?

arr, you mean ten inch tony ;)

ten inch mcfc bob, you mean.

 

[gaudinho's stolen car]

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If she's saying all this just before you go to see her, it might be best if you don't go. Give her a couple of weeks and see how she feels.

Who is this mysterious confidante that understands her better than you?

honestly, i feel like i should go just because i paid £33 for a ticket.

her cousin and long time best friend - a girl. you know, someone else whose hormones sky rocket and crash at least thirty times in a day.

She's the one who's putting all this doubt in your bird's mind BOB.

Snakes with tits.

 

[Damocles]

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Perhaps BOB, she might not be looking for the type of man who thinks it's appropriate to post details of his relationship and neurosis about it on an internet forum?

Just a thought.

BB2.0 was correct about the state of teenagers today; when I was a teenager, we just used to get pissed and talk about football. When did everybody forget that life isn't really as serious as they believe?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMUiwTubYu0[/youtube]

 

[MCFC BOB]

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honestly, i feel like i should go just because i paid £33 for a ticket.

her cousin and long time best friend - a girl. you know, someone else whose hormones sky rocket and crash at least thirty times in a day.

She's the one who's putting all this doubt in your bird's mind BOB.

Snakes with tits.

i honestly don't know, because her cousin isn't that sort of person.

i know, but i don't think i'll find a snake with nicer tits to be honest. ):