Is it okay if your spouse hangs out with his/her ex?

city saint said:
my mate broke up with his ex but was freinds with her brother went to a family do and ended up shagging her sister which didnt go down well so they split up.about a year later he saw her mum on a night out and had a quickie behind a pub and all she kept saying was dont tell the girls or brad as he rattled her.hes quite rightly a ledge in our old footy reunions
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He could and should quite rightly still be dining out on that. If that was me I'd be playing the Family Fortunes theme every time I entered a crowded room.
 
Few days back she kept on telling me how she is going to cut off ties with her ex completely as he is not nice but then yesterday when I was coming back from work, I saw them talking on the phone for hours. So I did have a thorough conversation with her last night about this. She kept on saying the same thing and when I asked why she still talks to her ex when she has told me multiple times that he is a ****, she finally admitted that maybe she still cares about him.
I understood and told her basically that the relationship is not going to work out eventually since she is so confused about her feelings herself.

My issue here is not her talking to her ex. But her talking to someone she has nothing good to say about. But maybe I am in the wrong here. Time will tell.
 
roy.or.r said:
Few days back she kept on telling me how she is going to cut off ties with her ex completely as he is not nice but then yesterday when I was coming back from work, I saw them talking on the phone for hours. So I did have a thorough conversation with her last night about this. She kept on saying the same thing and when I asked why she still talks to her ex when she has told me multiple times that he is a ****, she finally admitted that maybe she still cares about him.
I understood and told her basically that the relationship is not going to work out eventually since she is so confused about her feelings herself.

My issue here is not her talking to her ex. But her talking to someone she has nothing good to say about. But maybe I am in the wrong here. Time will tell.
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You're well out of it, I can only envisage problems ahead if it continues.
 
roy.or.r said:
Few days back she kept on telling me how she is going to cut off ties with her ex completely as he is not nice but then yesterday when I was coming back from work, I saw them talking on the phone for hours. So I did have a thorough conversation with her last night about this. She kept on saying the same thing and when I asked why she still talks to her ex when she has told me multiple times that he is a ****, she finally admitted that maybe she still cares about him.
I understood and told her basically that the relationship is not going to work out eventually since she is so confused about her feelings herself.

My issue here is not her talking to her ex. But her talking to someone she has nothing good to say about. But maybe I am in the wrong here. Time will tell.
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When you were coming back from work, you saw her and her ex talking for hours on the phone.... how did that work?
 
roy.or.r said:
Few days back she kept on telling me how she is going to cut off ties with her ex completely as he is not nice but then yesterday when I was coming back from work, I saw them talking on the phone for hours. So I did have a thorough conversation with her last night about this. She kept on saying the same thing and when I asked why she still talks to her ex when she has told me multiple times that he is a ****, she finally admitted that maybe she still cares about him.
I understood and told her basically that the relationship is not going to work out eventually since she is so confused about her feelings herself.

My issue here is not her talking to her ex. But her talking to someone she has nothing good to say about. But maybe I am in the wrong here. Time will tell.
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Are you trying out material on here or something? Not that I'm complaining, but some of it is gold. You had a thorough conversation did you? Let's hear the narrative when you've written it.
 
roy.or.r said:
Few days back she kept on telling me how she is going to cut off ties with her ex completely as he is not nice but then yesterday when I was coming back from work, I saw them talking on the phone for hours. So I did have a thorough conversation with her last night about this. She kept on saying the same thing and when I asked why she still talks to her ex when she has told me multiple times that he is a ****, she finally admitted that maybe she still cares about him.
I understood and told her basically that the relationship is not going to work out eventually since she is so confused about her feelings herself.

My issue here is not her talking to her ex. But her talking to someone she has nothing good to say about. But maybe I am in the wrong here. Time will tell.
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Gonna be blunt here Roy, maybe she thinks you're a crap shag ?
 
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