Is it okay if your spouse hangs out with his/her ex?

[snorky]

Yes! Another roy thread!! :)

 

[Nebuchadnezzar]

Roy, I thought you were allowed to shag other women in your relationship? What's good for the goose is good for the gander my friend.

 

[Legal Alien]

So I created a thread about me getting married to my girlfriend last month. We are happy together but something just bothers me sometimes. She was with her ex for 2 years before she dumped him back in 2020 and then we started dating a few months later. But she is not only in touch with her ex but she also hangs out with him sometimes. I am fine with that but it is kind of strange to me because she never spoke a single good word about him and how he always has been kind of useless and mean.

I have never been that kind of guy who sets down laws on my partners. However it is a bit awkward.

Am I being just insecure?

You need to put a stop to this before it goes too far.
Tell her how you feel and that you are bothered by it.
If she truly wants to be with you she will respect your opinion and stop all contact with him. If she doesn't, you need to end it.

 

[hello]

Sounds like she's the type who would buy a half n half scarve and that's just not right. The exception being if she shared custody of kids with him(her these days)

 

[dronefromsector7G]

So I created a thread about me getting married to my girlfriend last month. We are happy together but something just bothers me sometimes. She was with her ex for 2 years before she dumped him back in 2020 and then we started dating a few months later. But she is not only in touch with her ex but he also hangs out of her sometimes. I am fine with that but it is kind of strange to me because she never spoke a single good word about him and how he always has been kind of useless and mean.

I have never been that kind of guy who sets down laws on my partners. However it is a bit awkward.

Am I being just insecure?

Fixed

 

[BlueHammer85]

My brothers ex is part of the family now. Comes to all family events. His Mrs is cool with it.

 

[Deleted member 77198]

So I created a thread about me getting married to my girlfriend last month. We are happy together but something just bothers me sometimes. She was with her ex for 2 years before she dumped him back in 2020 and then we started dating a few months later. But she is not only in touch with her ex but she also hangs out with him sometimes. I am fine with that but it is kind of strange to me because she never spoke a single good word about him and how he always has been kind of useless and mean.

I have never been that kind of guy who sets down laws on my partners. However it is a bit awkward.

Am I being just insecure?

I never know whether you’re on the WUM or not, Roy.

 

[Sir peace frog]

I never know whether you’re on the WUM or not, Roy.

lives in a fantasy world ,but entertaining

 

[dronefromsector7G]

I never know whether you’re on the WUM or not, Roy.

Im sure in 2020 he was posting about being single and so on. I can’t be arsed checking his old posts though

 

[Pedestrian]

My ex-wife is the mother of my daughter. I love them both to bits.