Lost my mum today.

Have you any family close to you?

It's better to talk to them about the good times and their recollections of your mum than get hammered.
We've talked and shared mate, we are all distraught.
One minute we're laughing about the daft things, next we are crying.
Thanks for the advice blue, but for now, I'm getting hammered.
 
Im sorry for your loss. She sounded like a lovely mother who lived a long life.

Try not to feel guilty, you did as she wished. Hindsight can feel powerful but you cant be there 24/7 to account for every situation.

Things will feel tough but know it will get better, take it day by day and look for support where you can find it, be that family, friends or online. Talking it out and allowing yourself to grieve and feel your emotions is an important step in processing things while also being a way to recollect memories and cherish her life.

Take care of yourself.
 
So sorry for your loss blue, 89 is an incredible age,she must have lived a wonderful life, remember all the happy memories you had together pal nobody can take them away from you, stay strong mate
 
Im sorry for your loss. She sounded like a lovely mother who lived a long life.

Try not to feel guilty, you did as she wished. Hindsight can feel powerful but you cant be there 24/7 to account for every situation.

Things will feel tough but know it will get better, take it day by day and look for support where you can find it, be that family, friends or online. Talking it out and allowing yourself to grieve and feel your emotions is an important step in processing things while also being a way to recollect memories and cherish her life.

Take care of yourself.
Thank you so much for your reply, it means a lot mate.
She was indeed a great mum. I'm in bits at the mo.
I really appreciate your advice, thank you
 

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