Good post Manchester blue. Just to pick up on your first paragraph the point you are making I actually agree with, which to me makes redundant the argument that BT would be biased against us for Commercial reasons.
Being biased against City will only alienate our fan base, which would possibly lead to cancelled subscriptions, but I would very much doubt persuade fans of other clubs to subscribe. They will only do that if BT have the tv rights and their team is featured. For an example would City fans buy papers, subscribe to BT because they gave United a tough time on chanps lge nights?
You are also correct also we take things personally from an outsider as its different to discussing it amongst ourselves and this is the crux of the matter. If we feel that like that what would an Arsenal fan think about the treatment of Wenger or United fans about Van Gaal?
We are naturally sensitised to criticism about our club and so of course it feels everyone is against us and particularly City fans who read Blue Moon are sensitised to it more than most because we have threads dedicated to articles. Amongst my peer group those who dont read Blue Moon or a lot less aware of the bias/agenda which is alluded to on the forum.
Still that does not change the fact the likes of Ferdinand, Ogden etc generally do have a dislike for us and are quite rightly called out for it.
The thing that struck me about the BT Sport coverage was just how unappealing they made our games for neutral fans. Not the ones that love or hate City but the ones that would think about tuning in for a CL game featuring another club but are 50:50 about it. They completely failed to create any feel good factor which might have persuaded neutrals to follow City's progress in the CL. Contrast that with the build up to the EL final where I expect quite a few neutrals would have been pulled in by the positivity of the build up across the media.
If it was deliberate decision by BT to appeal to United fans it doesn't seem to have been well thought out.